My coaching style is sex-positive, confident, healthy, real, honest, and straight to the point. My communicative approach helps you open up, expose and unleash your vulnerable side. You can start living a life you never thought was possible. I ask you to be as honest as you can during our sessions. We will face things together, and I will hold a safe, comfortable, and non-judgment space for you to focus on your sexuality. There will be times that I challenge you to think differently, and it may be uncomfortable for a moment. However, pushing you to explore more deeply will ultimately help you achieve your goals, in all areas of your life. Confidence is key!
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F*ifteen more days till May m#sturbation month. What does that mean to you? Let me start with why self-love, self-touch, and self-care are so important. Do you take time for yourself at least an hour a day? What about an hour a week? Do you make excuses for learning and loving yourself? I love the month of May! Do you think self-touch is essential for our health and well-being? Most people think m#sturbation is touching and arousing your g#nitals. That could be part of it, but there are so many more lovely parts of your body to explore. Are you ready to learn about your free spicy vessel aka body? We are looking for love and happiness from others, but let's start with ourselves. Are you scared to touch yourself? Are you frightened to find out how unbelievable you are? If nothing changes nothing changes. Are you ready to be your true authentic self? Remember today is a great day to take time for yourself and do something new and unusual. Comment below on how you felt before, during, and after your self-care day. Did you know I offer online s#x, love, life, and relationship coaching? We all need to speak to someone, and I love to work with ready people. Is that you? Love you hot ones. You are worth it, confident, and prepared to live your most fabulous life. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa drresa dot com
What is a sexologist?
A sexologist specializes in human sexuality and sexual behavior. As a certified sexologist, I have completed 500 hours of formal training in human sexuality. And with a Doctorate, I have completed more than 3000 hours of formal training. A sexologist views human sexuality from a multi-disciplinary, systemic, and multi-faceted perspective.
As a sexologist, I study sex. I study people’s sexual behaviors, feelings, and interactions. It is my job to help people learn about their sexuality, become more comfortable with it, and feel good about expressing themselves sexually. Learn more at drresa.com! xoxo, DR #drresa
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What can clothes do for your confidence? How do you choose an outfit that makes you feel flirty and confident? I have never been a fashionista, but I love the style and when someone else, shops and or dresses me. Have you heard of Le tote? It is an amazing monthly online service giving you unlimited boxes of women’s apparel and accessories each month. You shop, wear it, love it, keep it or exchange it. Perfect for me, it gets me to dress up, put makeup on, and feel flirty and confident. What are you doing today to feel confident in clothes and dressing yourself up? FYI While I was living in CA and NYC I loved renting clothes. The last year on the beaches of Mexico I pretty much wear the same thing. A bathing suit and a sarong. Please share below to learn new ways to feel our true authentic sexual self through our clothes and style? xoxo, DR #drresa
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Have you heard of FOSTA/SESTA? Did you hear of Backpage and Craigslist? For a decade I advertised on Backpage & Craigslist (well, I used to) since Trump signed The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and Allowed States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) are the U.S. Senate and House bills that as the FOSTA-SESTA package became law on April 11, 2018. The bill sounds great to remove sex trafficking, but there’s always a positive side of sex, and that includes me.
There are always 2 sides to a story, and conservatives would love to shut down anything sex-related. They are doing a wonderful job by Trump signing this bill. Were you a Backpage.com fan or checked out ads on Craigslist. I started marketing my Ebyresa striptease lap dance business on both of these platforms about 15 y r s ago. I am a consenting adult who advertised workshops, classes, and events to learn dance moves, confidence skills, and empowerment to love themselves and learn who they are. Are you ready to learn who you are without the guilt and shame of family, religion, politics, work, or friends? Who are you? What do you want in your life right now? These are 2 hard and scary ideas and questions to think of. Would you lose your family, faith, friends, and status if you decided to be you? It was a hard decision for me to make, but in my heart, passion, and soul, this is me. Remember, if nothing changes, nothing changes. I have always spoken my truth, and now I have a platform online to speak to more people! These 2 amazing platforms helped me build my business and get noticed on the first page of google. It took a lot of time, commitment, persistence, and consistent copy and pasting. It was a great way to advertise for free and build relationships and clients through a safer, quicker outlet and build a real business out of it. Over the years, I was flagged, or my ads were removed. When it first happened, I did not understand why someone would flag me. Years later, I realized religion is powered by money and control. I wasn’t going to let that stop me. I would post another ad and work and thought of many different angles to advertise online to grow my business. Many other people in the sex industry and or any business relied on these 2 helpful websites to grow their brand and business. It was a great feeling to finally speak our truth, a way for people to find us online, and a way to build a prosperous business through a free outlet. I kept on advertising on these sites and enjoying the outcome. From there, Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, and many other online platforms came into play. It was a way for myself and many others to build a social media presence for ourselves and many others. We built our lives, businesses, families, friends by these safe new exciting platforms. Since this bill passed in April 2018, many of us have lost our incomes, our websites, our social media pages, and most important online reviews and blacklist websites to keep us safe. I am still working and posting on Instagram and syncing it to Facebook and Twitter. I am shadowbanned and not sure who can find me. With all my hard work, all my social media pages can disappear at any moment. Not a safe, fun feeling when this is my livelihood and passion. This bill is trying to keep anyone speaking about sex behind the scenes on all these sites. If we get enough flags on these applications, we will get removed or blocked by advertising on IG or FB. How do we move forward if no one can find us? Do I go back to basics and pass out business cards, knock on doors, and hope for the best? I am ready to be global and would love to speak worldwide about helping you become your true authentic sexual self. I will keep on breaking down the walls and speaking my sexy words through any platform I can find. December 17th, 2018, Tumbler banned all adult content. There are so many social media platforms to choose from but also many to overwhelm us. I never learned or advertised on Tumbler. What would you do if you counted on all these free speech platforms for your business? They are removing us because we talk about sex, and there is always a positive and negative about sex or anything we do in our lives. We are all here from an orgasm, and we can’t even talk about it on here or out loud!!! The Fosta is a way to remove the platform for sex and human trafficking. By removing these platforms, will it stop trafficking? What about the consenting adults who relied on these websites and applications? I realized conservatives don’t care about individuals or us. The only thing we can do is keep speaking our truth and to VOTE. If you love strip clubs, tantrikas, sex workers, sensual massages, sex coaches, sex educators, lingerie stores, camming, porn stars, and or anything related to sex, please learn more about Fosta and the positive side of the sex industry and why we are so important to this world. xoxo, DR #drresa
Do you love to kiss? What’s your favorite kind of kiss: a peck, an Eskimo kiss, French kiss, the forehead kiss, kiss on the hand, single lip kiss, the lingering tease kiss, the cheek kiss, ear lobe kiss, butterfly kiss, leave a mark (lipstick kiss), lizard kiss, wet kiss, air kiss (mwaah), kiss of angle (kiss on the eyelids), seductive kiss, the bite, and nibble kiss, the (hold your) jaw kiss, the vampire kiss, or blow a kiss? What are new, safe, smart, sexy, flirty ways to kiss?
Now that we are isolating ourselves and connecting more online, we need to learn new ways to kiss, flirt, date, tease, enjoy and explore foreplay and/or sex. Today is Self Care Sunday. Please share your photo or idea of how to bring kissing, passion, excitement to our lives during quarantine with the phone camera lens!! I can’t wait to see what you come up with. Remember, you are confident, courageous, fantastic, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you ready to learn 5 sexy date ideas that you can enjoy in your own home! What's your favorite sexy at-home date idea? Do you have one or many? We get busy, or we have kids and a family, or we just make excuses. No more excuses! Today is the perfect day to plan a passionate, fun date right at home. 1.Roll play/dress up and perform a striptease lap dance 2. Cook an aphrodisiac (a food, drink, or drug that stimulates sexual desire) meal together. 3. Watch porn together and roll play different scenes 4.Get some baby oil and massage each other up and down all around. Don’t forget to body slide and connect your bodies as one. 5. Bubble bath/shower and really take time and clean everywhere and anywhere through touch, kiss, and getting wet. Comment below how your sexy at-home date night went and win a free sexy coaching session with me, Dr. Resa #drresa
Did you know you can use a door jam as part of your striptease dance? Did you know you can use it while you are doing the hip roll or the squat? Using a door jam helps you use the sides to help you balance and get up sexy! Do you know how to pole dance? Instead of a pole (because most people don't have one), you can enjoy basic sexy moves using one side of the door jam. Who would have thought! The way I learned was through practice. That is with anything you do. Put on some sexy music you feel sensual and excited to move. Put on an outfit, a costume, your bra & underwear, or after a shower while you are naked. The first step is standing between the door jam with your feet hip-width apart. Now put your hands on both sides of the door jam and move your hips side by side. The second step is to squat. Slowly bend your knees and from there, stick up your butt and come up. Are your legs burning and your butt firming up? If you do this enough, you can turn this dance into a striptease workout. Are you interested in learning more about striptease and lap dance moves? Check out my new e-commerce drresa.com website and order the DVDs where you can stream them on your computer or phone right away!! Here's the summary for the How to striptease for your partner DVD.In this Striptease 101 DVD series, professional striptease dancer and teacher Dr. Resa brings years of experience into your home to help you build your confidence. With step-by-step instruction, you will soon find yourself able to combine all of Resa's sexy moves into a sultry striptease for your partner. Learn to do spicy hip-rolls, sexy squats, and beautiful crawl combinations with a professional's confidence. Resa makes it all happen in the comfort of your living room or bedroom. This instructional DVD is for every and anyone from every age, shape, and size. And while you will achieve the full strengthening and toning benefits of exercise, you won't even notice the workout! Check below!! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
When is the last time you wrote a letter to a friend, family member, and or stranger? Here is a letter I wrote to a sexy, fun lady who is a family friend for many years. I have been thinking about her for a long time: Hi pretty lady. How are you? I think about you often. Thank you so much for following my journey. Anything related to the word Sex is taboo, and it drives me crazy. It doesn’t make sense. So I keep pushing boundaries and moving forward. Finally speaking my truth and my anxious mind, lol. I love my family, but they don’t understand the point of what I am saying and doing. They see me being sexy and talking about myself masturbating. People want to hear stories and connect with others who have the same issues or problems. We are helping each other grow and live in this chaotic world. Old family values and traditions are brainwashed in most people. Many don’t understand the magnitude of what we can do on the internet, and I want to do it the sexy way. Right now, the most important time is to learn about sex & healthy positive lifestyle changes in politics, education, and families. My family asked me many times to block or remove everyone involved with my family (including you, it makes me sad) to take you or anyone of my Facebook and social media channels. People are so into social status and image. Especially in Los Angeles and Southern California. What if I wasn’t Resa, the black sheep daughter of my family. If they opened their heart and mind to really listen to what we are saying. I bet we would all learn something. Thank you for standing by me, and hopefully, one day my family will also. They are missing out on an amazingly sexy, confident, independent nice, caring person ME. Sorry just happy with what I am doing in my life, and I miss them! We stay in touch, and I see them every few months. Sexy Sexologist is who I am, who I have been. This is my life and passion. It’s my fire, my flame, and why I have been in the sex worker world for 20 years. Join my other platforms to read the rest of the letter. Who would you write a letter to and what would it say? xoxo, DR #drresa
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Can we please add the CDC words back now that we have a new President? These were the words they removed. Transgender, fetus, vulnerable, entitlement, diversity, evidence-based & science-based. What is happening with America? Are they going to forbid sex, pleasure, or anything that most of us think about or do! Or are those words already banned? Does not make sense. Why? Hmm, maybe control, power from religion & the Bible? I’m trying to stay positive, and I will keep on speaking my truth and filming videos, blogs & talking about sex, life, and politics. Do it with me out loud, and more people will listen, learn & spread the word. Don’t forget to massage and give love to your breast. Hopefully, the word #breast will stay. Boob, nipple, nipples, boobies, boobs are forbidden as Instagram hashtags plus many more. Trump conservative Republicans want a small government, and how does that work when trying to dictate our lives. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Start today by being real, honest, open, and speak up to change these crazy chaotic backward views of life. xoxo, DR #drresa
Are you into New Years Resolutions? What were yours this year? Can you believe we are already starting April next week? I try to think positive and make sexy, smart, realistic goals. Do we get them all done? No, we make excuses, but I realize when we get the fire under our ass, we make it happen? Do you? Are you ready to make 2021 the best year for you to live your true authentic sexual life? You are a genuine lovely amazing person… Big changes, and if nothing changes, nothing changes in our lives. Do you ever feel like you are living Groundhog Day? I embrace them, and it's different and a lot of fun!!!! We feel more nostalgic during the holidays, lots of great memories that we think of from the past that bring happiness, but are we living in the now moment? Are we moving forward, are we changing, or are we living a Groundhog Day, “a situation in which events are or appear to be continually repeated”?Do you like living, thinking, doing, working, eating, watching, listening, seeing, talking every single day, same day, same time, same everything? It gets boring, monotonous, and same ol same ol. We need to live each moment to the fullest and live in the present, Right this fricken moment, second, time…. We are all gifts, and if we celebrate more happiness, more sexual freedom, more sex-positive outlooks, more sexual health education, teaching what is right or wrong, true or false, what is consent? What is nice or mean? Who is real or fake…..We need to remember not to let things bother us and just kiss(blow) them away. This world is getting faster and faster by the minute because of our phones in our hands. (we don’t need a chip in our body, our phone is attached to our hip). Remember, you are hot, worth it, confident, and your best version. xoxo, DR #drresa
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What kind of sexy outfit are you wearing? When was the last time you went on a sexy spontaneous, fun date? What are your sexy date ideas for a perfect evening? Would you practice self-care before a date? You deserve to make the most out of it, so make it sexy, passionate, and fun! Plan a sexy date for yourself, your partner, a friend, and enjoy every moment of your night. Please share your story below? I would love to hear about the steps you took to plan a much-needed date for yourself or your partner. Remember, you are worth it; you are sexy, beautiful, fantastic, and have a blast! I will be sharing a weekly sexy date night blog post with photos, videos, plus tips and tricks. I would love your help and ideas for a title and post. What do you think of this one? “Where’s Dr.Resa, the spicy doctor exploring now! Experience me exploring Mexico and bringing sexy and passion back into our lives. Are you ready to see what this amazing beach town has to offer? Let’s use our 5 senses-sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound to indulge in planning the sexiest romantic, sensual dates. I am excited just thinking about it. Who is ready to plan the next date? Who is joining? Remember, we are all here from an orgasm, so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time. Breathe, connect, learn, and love, and have a wonderful New Year!! xoxo, DR #drresa
Would conservatives love it if liberals would disappear? They want abortion to go, they want Black, Mexicans, and Muslims to disappear, they want sexual freedom, open-minded people to disappear. Please subscribe and check my youtube.com/drresa videos. We need to make America sexy again or finally. Wake up America, all of this will affect you today and or in the future. Think about your life and remove what your family, politics, church, work, and friends would think. What do you feel about not having sexual health and education in schools, family homes, and church/temple? How expensive are your health insurance, medications, and bills? What do you think of abortion, and how it can affect you in the future? What do you think of equal pay, opportunities in the workforce? What about immigration and how they are treating human beings?Last but not least, what about transgender and LQBTQ and the rights of everyone. Today we need to enjoy and take time for self-touch, self-care, self-expression, self-love, self-confidence. You are worth it; you are sexy, beautiful, and courageous. Love you sexy ones. xoxo DR #drresa
Can you believe it is almost April 2021? Wow, where do these years go? Do you feel like you live a Groundhog life, same ol same ol routine day after day? Are you ready to change that? What steps are you going to start today to make your life the best it can be? You are the one who needs to make that first step—no one else. I understand change is scary, and sometimes your choices will not be everyone else's choices, but you are the important ones. You need to live and love your life first before you can love anyone else. You deserve to be happy and live your true authentic sexual life. Where do you begin? That is the hard part. What do you want in your life? Do you enjoy your job? Do you enjoy where you live? Do you enjoy what your daily routine is like? Are you enjoying hobbies that make you happy? Are you eating the foods that make you feel alive and healthy? Do you love spending time with the people you have in your life? Do you feel comfortable in your own home and space? Please really think about these questions and how you really feel about each one of them. Most of us just push our emotions, thoughts, and desires by drinking, eating, and doing things that are not healthy to forget the real reason we are here. You deserve to live the best life and the greatest version of yourself. Start today with breathing. Take 3 sexy full breathes and feel each moment you breathe into your nose and breathe out of your mouth. Get in the moment right now and feel yourself breathing and enjoying the sensation of the air going in and out. This is a free, fun, easy exercise to reboot and get balance into your own body. After you do some breathing techniques, stretch your body. Do some neck rolls, shoulder rolls, bend over and touch your feet and feel the flow of your free sexy vessel. You are sexy, amazing, fantastic & deserve your self-care time! Please share your stories below. xoxo, DR #drresa
Are you ready to flirt? What is flirting to you? Are you ready to let your hair down and be the sexy, confident person you deserve to be? Remember, you are amazing, fantastic, exciting & courageous. Are you ready to make 2021 the best year ever? Flirting helps you connect, smile, and have many healthy benefits, including building confidence and self-esteem, building positive energy for yourself and others, making you feel good, helping reduce your stress, and strengthening and building your relationships. Wikipedia defines flirting as a social and sexual behavior involving verbal or written communication and body language, by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person or, if done playfully, for amusement. What are your favorite ways to flirt with somebody? We also need to be aware of respecting each other while we flirt. Everyone has different boundaries, upbringings, and diverse ways to flirt that works for them. Take notice and ask if it's okay to hug, touch, or speak or flirt that way. Make sure you are both consenting to the flirting and the progression of whatever happens with you two. It is nice to go with the flow, let yourself go, and flirt away, but it will be a better experience if you notice your surroundings, breathe, take time, enjoy the moment and make sure it is a safe, comfortable setting more flirting to happen. How to flirt? #1 Eye contact & it is the way to the soul & best & easiest way to start flirting #2 smile and really smile ear to ear, #3 start talking, initiate a conversation, complement each other & use body language #4 break the touch barrier but remember to ask first! Weekly I will blog about dating in the digital world & how to evolve in 2021 with dating apps, how to flirt text and be safe, sexy and smart on the way! Please comment below on how you are going to flirt tonight? How did your flirting go & how did you feel? Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Sexual Health is so important for all levels of a healthy body, mind, and spirit. Whether it's what to do during the Coronavirus lockdown or any day of the year, you should always think about and care for your body inside and out. Here are a few tips on how to treat your body better, smell and taste better, and feel your best. Your partner will thank you! Your body will thank you! Find more great info on healthy tips at drresa.com, and let me inspire you to be your most confident, hot self at drresa.xyz and onlyfans! Come enjoy my sexier content while supporting me on my great big sex coaching journey! xoxo, DR #drresa
Dating in today’s world can be hard enough, but now add a global pandemic making us rethink how we do everything, and it can be more confusing than ever. Today I’m giving you some tips you might find incredibly helpful for not just dating but living a healthy sexual life. You can also book a session with me for private coaching to improve your sexual confidence and understanding of deeper and more fulfilling relationships. Let’s explore together! Drresa.com xoxo, Dr. Resa the sexy Sexologist drresa.com @drresa Follow and explore with me: ♥ ONLYFANS: @drresa ♥ FANCENTRO @drresa♥ PATREON @drresa ♥ INSTAGRAM: @drresa ♥ YOUTUBE @drresa ♥ TWITTER: @askdrresa ♥ TIKTOK: @askdrresaa
Have you been exploring and touching yourself this week? What is masturbation to you? The definition is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is not just a sexual act. It is an experience a connection to go deep and find out who you are and what your life is all about. For me, it is an everyday practice (plus struggle) to help me slow down, breathe, connect, feel, and enjoy every moment to get to know my body inside and out. Are you ready for a reboot, to reflect and dig deep and learn more about yourself? What are you going to do today that you're passionate about? I am Resa, the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self! What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! Xoxo DR @sexysexologist @drresa #sexysexologist #drresa
What were your top 5 things you enjoyed in 2020? How was your 2020 yr? Did you have a spicy, fun, amazing, real, genuine loving year?! What are your plans to be your true authentic sexual self and finally live the real you? Let’s start now & keep on living your greatest life into the New Year! Every day changes, and if nothing changes, nothing changes. Let’s make the world change by one orgasm a day! This will make you a happier, loving, and caring person, and that love will spread to you and many others! You deserve the best. You are sexy, amazing, fantastic, and right now, this moment, believe and be it. Love you sexy ones. Have a wonderful rest of your year!!! xoxo, DR #drresa
Are you enjoying and taking time for #yourself & masturbating and letting go every day this New Year? What about meditating, yoga, stretching, breathing, walking, exploring, writing, and really slowing down and having fun with yourself first and also your loved ones. When we speak our minds, we learn and grow on the way. From the day I started stripping to getting my doctorate in human sexuality, I really feel like I was born to help others and myself be my true authentic sexual self. In my bio, click the link to enjoy more hilarious, edgy Youtube videos, Instagram, and Patreon posts from the past year. Watch me sing, ride, eat, pray, smoke weed, plus much more. Many more videos coming soon in the upcoming year. (When it gets warmer, we will be filming a video driving around New York City in a convertible with the Sybian. Stopping around the city passing out the lube, condoms, and sex-positive information on masturbation. Plus riding the Sybian on the way. Do you want to win a Sybian or my favorite sex toys and things? Let's make that happen in 2021. What would you like to learn and watch in my videos? Remember to have a sexy self-care day and make the most of this week by smiling more, laughing, and having a fantastic time. Say hi and smile to strangers, family, coworkers, and friends. Ask them how they are doing and really listen and see how they are doing. We all need a hug, a friend, a smile to enjoy and spark every special day and moment. You deserve it. We deserve it. You are sexy, confident, worth it, amazing, and are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? I love you sexy ones! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Do you know the four fears confident people overcome? Do you know fear stops us from masturbating and or orgasming? Why do you think that is? Here are the four concerns 1. Fear of Being Yourself 2. Fear of Self Promotion 3. Fear of Criticism 4. Fear of Making Mistakes Are you thinking of what other people think of you? Were you feared with guilt and shame about your body? What about YOU? What do you want? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self and overcome these fears? Are you taking time off every day to self-touch self-care, self-love, and self-confidence? I am wearing the wondrous vulva puppet, aka vulva pillow, vagina puppet, yoni pillow, or vulva map in this photo. It is the #1 sex tool in the world. This beautiful, wondrous vulva puppet is custom made with silk velvet and satin. They are anatomically accurate, including:- Outer and Inner Labia- Clitoral Glans- Clitoral Legs- Vagina- Urethra- G-spot- Hymen (tags)This great tool is to empower women and girls and enlightening men and boys. This product is for sale on my drresa.com. Have a wonderful sexy day. Please comment below, subscribe, and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember, you are hot, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa.com #drresa
Would you travel by yourself? Would you go to the movies by yourself? Would you go to dinner by yourself? Sexy ones are you ready to try something on your own! What are you going to do by yourself for at least an hour today? Start small!! Please comment below and tell me how you felt before, during, and after. It may be different, difficult, or out of your comfort zone to do something on your own instead of having a friend, a partner, or a family member with you. What would you do sitting by yourself at a restaurant or sitting alone at the movies? Could you drive cross country on your own (or bring an animal along to keep you company.) I have done all of these by myself, and yes, it is change; it could be scary, there could be challenges, but otherwise, it grows us to be a better person. I m*eet amazing people when I am not with someone. It gets me out of my routine to say hello to someone new. While traveling to different places, you m*eet all walks of life, and you open your eyes to a whole new world. In 2015 I finished the book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying. After I read it, I started the process and got rid of many things that did not bring me joy. It cleared my mind from stuff, I never knew where anything was, and I realized what is important to my life moving forward. I was ready to move to New York City, but I knew I had to get rid of my properties and lessen my anxiety. I loved my home, but I was ready for the next chapter. In 2016 Romeo, my Shih Tzu mix dog, and I drove from San Francisco to NYC. We took our time at a dude ranch, Yellowstone, Mt Rushmore, Chicago, and enjoying our sexy warrior road trip. My book coming soon of the best trip I have ever been on & a blog on how Kon Mari Tidy up changed my life. Big news my e-commerce website is launched for you to book coaching sessions, buy streams and toys. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Do you have a friend, a family member, or a coworker that you share all your secrets, challenges, and life stories with? Can you call them up or visit them right now if you need a shoulder to cry on and or laugh with? I asked a handful of people of all ages this question, and most people don’t have that friend they can count on and get really deep and raw with. Would you like a friend who you can talk to and be your true authentic self? Wouldn’t it be nice to talk to someone who is not judging you and wanting to know the real you? This kind of person is a special person in your life, who understands you, who wants the best for you, and you deserve to have somebody like this in your life. Do you have someone you care about and someone who cares about you? We all need to talk, cry, laugh, listen, and be heard sometimes. Who do you talk to you? Where do you go when you need help with some tough questions answered? Do you go to church, talk to your dog, or talk to yourself or the bartender? Does it get to the point where you drink more, do drugs, eat bad, etc. If we don’t have that outlet to let our voices be heard, we may choose unhealthy habits to compensate for our true selves. I think we all have been there, but there are many healthy, safe sexy ways to be noticed, to be heard, to speak our stories and truths, and have someone who really listens. Luckily I have an amazing support group who has helped me grow to be the best I can be. I am still learning, loving, and breathing along the way. Every day is a new day and a new life experience. Who do I talk to? Twice a month, I talk to my therapist Jennifer. We have been meeting up and talking for the past two decades. Therapy has saved my life, and I recommend finding the right health system that works for you that will make your life shine so much brighter. I also found an amazing psychiatrist in NYC who has helped me find the right medication for my anxiety and ADD. Share your stories! xoxo DR #drresa @drresa
Do you know how to remove your clothes sexy, slowly, and seductively for yourself and or a partner? Have you been practicing the different striptease moves from the DVDs? Are you practicing ways to take off your clothes during a striptease dance? Please check my video clip from EbyResa's Striptease Lap Dance DVD on how to look sexy, confident while moving your body, teasing, and enjoying a striptease while removing each piece of clothing. Remember, you are amazing, courageous, fun, exciting, and ready to be your best version! Practice, patience, persistence, and passion will make this tease so much more thrilling for you. Eye contact, smiling, slow down, and enjoy the moments. Interested in watching more videos? Download and practice all the striptease lap dance moves on my site and buy the DVD/streaming on Amazon. Can you believe it is the New Year! This is a great day to start living your true authentic sexual self. Are you ready and interested in Ebyresa's DVDs, gift cards for coaching, sex toys, and more? They are great, sexy, fun gift ideas! Today borrow or buy a man's white button-down shirt or put on sexy lingerie, a bathing suit, or an outfit right from your closet. Remember to keep your partner engaged. If you are enjoying what you are doing, that is the most important. You loving yourself first and enjoying these moves are healthy sexy positive changes to a happier life! Feel sexy, feel good, and enjoy! What are you doing today to start your journey? Are you ready to join mine? xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
