Are you stressed? What are you stressed about? Is it the weather, family, work, money, health, and life that stresses you out? We would love to hear your smart, sexy, healthy ways that lessen your stress levels? Do you do yoga, masturbate, run, do drugs, drink, watch TV, scroll on your phones, eat, meditate, sleep, have sex? These are some of my ways to get out of my head and not stress. It is a daily struggle trying to get out of my head and really be in the now and the moment. This last week I have been more anxious, and I feel like I should not be, but my body chemistry thinks different. It could be my m*enstruation, sleep, partying, tasty food I eat, the medication I take, my bowels, the weather, and or just being. Do you ever think about your gut, body, mind, and free sexy vessel? Most people ignore the most important part of ourselves and put it to the sideline. I am guilty, just like you. Did you know I have been working on a masturbation orgasm tracker? Do you already use a tracker for your bowels (aka p*oop), your steps, your food, your period..pretty much anything? This tracker will be able to track all of this, plus figure out your masturbation times and orgasms to help you live your true authentic sexual self! Would you use this MOT app? I would definitely use this tracker to figure out why I am more stressed or happy on certain days and times of the month. Maybe I was having sex or masturbating or releasing and having more orgasms. Maybe we slept more, ate better, did not drink or do drugs as much. What about you? My tracker will be launched soon, but this week my new e-commerce Drresa website will be up and ready for you to book coaching sessions, buy gift cards, DVD streaming, striptease lap dance parties, webinars, and Dr. Resa's favorite sexy things, including sex toys, clothing, lingerie, books, jewelry, educational pieces plus more. Remember you are sexy, confident, worth it!! xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Let’s talk about sexual health! Masks have been treated like condoms since this pandemic began. Some people wear them, some don’t not caring about the risks they are taking for themselves and others. I wanted to make a quick video to address a few important topics as we sail uncharted waters in 2021. xoxo, Dr. Resa the sexy Sexologist drresa.com @drresa Follow and explore with me: #drresa
Are you a flirt? Flirting is not always sexual or a way to get something. (It could be, but not always) It is friendly, smiling, real and genuine, and looking into someone's eyes, saying you are worth it. Doesn’t it feel good when someone flirts with you? When does someone ask you how you are, and they really mean it? What about when someone asks you questions and or they ask you out on a date? Practice makes it easier, and I was not a flirt from the beginning. I was taught manners and to be courteous to others. When it came down to say hello to someone at school or anywhere, I would shy away because of my nerves. I still get anxiety, and it interferes with me growing my business, speaking in public, and getting in front of a camera. I work on it every day by figuring out ways to grow and to release my anxious ways. It is a struggle every day, but I still keep pushing along. I know something is working because I started flirting a lot while I was stripping at Cheetahs in San Diego in 1998. Wow, that was over 20 years ago, and I knew if I wanted to make it in the stripping world, you need to flirt. I realized it's the first “hello” and smile, and after that, I get more comfortable. Does that happen to you? After many times saying hello and flirting, it becomes easier and easier. Working at a strip club helped my self-confidence, introduced me to a world of all walks of life and people, and I made this journey a business and a pleasurable one. I loved working as a stripper for most of my 20’s, and I would definitely dance on stage again. Would you come to a club and see me dance on stage? xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you celebrating International women’s day? Today, March 8th all around the world every woman and human being should be celebrating International Women’s Day (IWD)! Do you know why IWD is celebrated on March 8 every year? It is a movement for women's rights. After the Socialist Party of America organized a Women's Day on February 28, 1909, in New York, the 1910 International Socialist Woman's Conference suggested a Women's Day be held annually on March 8th! This day is to help nations worldwide eliminate discrimination against women. Today is a global day that celebrates women's social, economic, cultural, and political achievements. #TBT Post in 2019 I was in Cambodia and Vietnam, where I was traveling for a month, and they were also celebrating IWD today. It’s exciting to see other countries getting involved and being part of such a movement and a special day. What are you doing today to celebrate International Women’s Day? Every year there is a theme for IWD. 2019 was #BalanceforBetter. Balance drives a better working world and a more inspirational world all around. We are celebrating women's social, economic, cultural, and political achievements, but focusing on teaching and understanding what gender balance is? This campaign #balanceforbetter does not end today. We should be celebrating everyone every day. My goal is to start my #votingissexy campaign. We all have a spicy voice, and each one of us could make a difference by speaking our words through blogging, videos, photos, events, books, friends, coworkers, family, and more. Think about your family, your kids, your grandchildren. We are celebrating our lives for our future but mostly for the ones before us, especially those after us. Please learn more about IWD and remember to register to vote and start your campaign or join one that brings you joy and passion. Love you spicy ones. Xoxo DR #drresa
Are you ready to learn the 10 Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence?
Who is Dr. Resa the Relationship and Confidence Coach on making people live their true real authentic, happy life and live in the moment?
What is Confidence? Do you know? Raise your hand if you know what confidence is?
Belief in yourself and your abilities. You feel good about yourself. Love yourself. You make that decision no one else, and people will notice.
Practice Practice and Enjoy the moments you are Practicing.
Back to Basics Simple Fun...Exercise everyone up….
1. Name and a Word to describe yourself? My name is Resa, and I am an explorer… I love the experience of life, people, food, places….. and always learning.
2.Eye Contact-Exercise & Example look at someone, don’t stare, and smile with your eyes. Glowing exciting..
3.Smile- use your beautiful teeth smile—ear to ear. Smiling is contagious. Shows happiness, confidence, and introduction.
4.The Walk posture we all know how to walk but shoulders back and swag your style feel it and enjoy it. Practice, and let’s see your walk...
5. Breathe and Stretch Breathe in stomach full and exhale stomach to the back of your back. Relaxes you. It makes you more aware and brings you to the MOMENT. Stretch arms up and move...
6. Dance & Sing - Music, please Move Exercise Who loves to dance and sing and just let loose. Pick a favorite song or artist and start moving. No one is watching and have fun!!!
7.Good Manners
a. Hi, How are you?
b.Thank you.
c.Please.
d. Excuse me,
e. Ask permission.
f. Knock on a closed door.
g. May I have some food drink.
h. Shake hands or hug. Depending on the person’s hug.
i. Listen.
j.Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
k.Hold the door for someone behind you.
8.Compliment three things a day to yourself, your parents, and a friend…
a. I like your smile
b.You make me happy
c.Your Outfit is so cute.
d.I am happy you are in my life.
e.Thank you for helping me with my homework.
f.I love your new haircut.
This builds your confidence and learning nice things to say to others.
9.Give/Volunteer/Donate- What do you love?
Dogs, Clothes, a Special Charity, People
Give your time- Talk to someone, Volunteer with a school, a project, and donate clothes, toys, etc., for people in need.
10.Less Media- Who watches TV? What shows? Who is on the computer? Ipad, Phone?
Who gets out and plays without Media? The yard, toys, dolls, drawing. Ideas on what else to do without TV etc.… Give me ideas
Any questions? xoxo, DR #drresa
Do you drink coffee? Do you consume sugar? Do you take Addreral? Do you use cocaine? How do you feel before, during, and after you drink or take these substances? When I take anything to boost my mood, I finally realized that it is an upper; it feels great initially, but the crash not so much. When you are coming down from your high, do you drink another cup of coffee, or eat more sugar, or pop another Adderal, or sniff another line? What does this do to our body and mind? Is this your daily habit that you are used to and don’t want to give up? I have dr*unk a fair share of coffee and sugar products, and I have taken Adderal for many months. I enjoy the taste of coffee and or sweets and the feeling of Adderal. Most people start their day with a cup of coffee or an upper. Does that sound like you? Is this the way you wake up, get to work, and survive daily? I was part of this routine, and I could not figure out why I wasn’t feeling my sexy, healthy self. Do you have anxiety or Attention Deficit Disorder(ADD)? I have high anxiety, and over the years, I have tried many tactics to control it. When your mind over thinks, analyzes everything, and you have raced in your head all day, it takes a toll on your life. Some people can meditate, do yoga and reduce their anxiety with healthy smart habits. I definitely enjoy yoga and other methods to reduce my anxiety but living with anxiety for many years; I needed something more to survive. After many days of therapy, I finally started Lexapro. It’s been over a decade since I started the SSRI daily prescription pill to help my mind sweep away the negatives and help me live a happier, fulfilling life. Lexapro saved my life, and I still take 20 mg a day to help me survive in this chaotic, crazy world and feel more normal. I have experienced other medications to help me with my ADD. My psychiatrist prescribed me Adderal a while ago. I enjoyed getting things done, but I realized the comedown was taking over my life over the years. I really enjoyed this pill, and I felt like I can get anything done. That’s what it's supposed to do. I took about 5-15 mg every morning. Instead of a cup of coffee, I would pop a pill. I realized years later Adderal was heightening my anxiety, and I started having compulsive behaviors that included being manic, freaking out over small things, snapping and yelling at others, and not feeling great about myself. Do you feel this way when you are coming down from a high? I realized the only person who can decide to get off any substance is you. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Every day is a new day and a struggle, but I was ready to get off the uppers and live a more substantial life. I am still learning ways to lessen my anxiety, and one of them is travel. Romeo and I have been in Mexico for a vacation that turned into all of 2020 because of COVID. You would think my anxiety would heighten, but instead, I love change and a reboot to make me a healthier, better person. Please follow our journey, and I would love to hear your stories. Love you sexy ones. Have a wonderful sexy day! xoxo, DR #drresa
What are petals? Do you love your petals? Are you interested in learning about the book I am in called I Love My Petals by Nick Karras and Sayaka Adachi? This book is filled with various vulva images that will help people, including myself, love and appreciate how beautiful we all are. Do you know what a vulva is? Vaginas are just one part of the vulva; many people still say “vagina” when they really mean the vulva. The vulva is the whole female genital package, including your labia, clitoris, vaginal opening, and the opening to the urethra (the hole you p*ee out of). This is the summary of this book "Can we women love ourselves completely, to the very core of our womanhood? I Love My Petals challenges us to embrace our vulvas and explore true self-love fully. With elegant color photography, inspired quotes, and playful, educational essays, this book calls us to join the self-empowered and proclaim, “I Love My Petals!” Are you ready to learn about your petals, aka vulva? Today is a great day to masturbate and a perfect day to learn and love your vulva. Let's start with an exercise by getting out of a mirror and looking at your vulva. This is a way to get to know what it looks like, the color, the smell, the layers, and the texture. If you don't know what your vulva feels, how can you teach others what you love and enjoy? This is not a sexual exercise. It is a way to learn about your free vessel (body) and connect and love your full self. Are you interested in a webinar e-book class on learning and loving your vulva/vagina? This is the main photo on my new e-commerce drresa.com website. Please check out my site & this book will be available to purchase soon under Dr. Resa's favorite sexy things? I mentioned earlier my petal (vulva) is portrayed in this lovely book. Are you interested in a signed copy next to the photo of my petal? Remember to take time today and explore & masturbate to get to know the real amazing you. I love you sexy ones! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Do you know what a dollar is? Have you ever worked and paid all your bills from rent, school, books, food, health care, car insurance, phone bills, etc.? Or did your family give you a hand out for everything and anything? I realized many people who got the help really don't understand how hard it is to make a dollar. Do you understand? Did you have to work at a y*o*ung age and pay for things out of your own pocket? I started babysitting at 12 almost every weekend for $2 an hour. Yes, that was in the late '80s, but it taught me about money and how hard it was to make a dollar. I was jealous of others who got a handout, but it also taught me early on to be independent, self-assured, and had to figure out what I wanted to do in my life. I always had a business creative mind, and I wanted to go to college and get my degree. At 18, I started San Diego State and knew I had to figure something out with my life. I did not want loans because, in the long run, I would be paying them off forever. Are you paying off loans and credit cards, and you feel like it will never end? How much interest are you paying, and how much will it be when you finally pay it off? I went a different route than most, but I am so happy I followed my sexy journey into stripping. I became a stripper in 2008 while I was still at SDSU. This helped me pay for college, buy property, travel, save money and encouraged me to start my own business in 2007. EbyResa striptease lap dance business started my career as an entrepreneur and led me into a whole new world in the sex industry. This is still my life and my passion many years later. I started as a stripper, built a business teaching striptease for everyday women, and got my doctorate in human sexuality. My new drresa.com e-commerce website just launched! Please check it out and tell me what you think? It was a long road but worth every moment. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Did you marry the wrong person for the wrong reasons? Are you happy with that decision? Why did you marry that person? For religious purposes, family reasons, status quo, you were lonely, you felt pressured, you didn't listen, you were rushed into it, you got pregnant, and or you don't know who you really are? Are these some of the reasons why you got married? I would love to hear your stories below! Everyone has their own story, and you can make your own decision today. What would that look like? I understand life makes choices for you, but you also have a choice. You may have the perfect partner in front of you, and you're looking for it somewhere else. Today take time for yourself, breathe, connect and figure out what you really want. Today is Masturbation Monday and it is your day to be the best you can be. Put on your favorite sexy outfit, put some lipstick on and smile ear to ear. How do you feel? The more you love yourself and learn about what you want, you build self-confidence, self-love, and self-assurance to be your greatest version. Does that sound amazing? It's hard work, and remember, nothing is easy, but you deserve it. Did you know I offer online sex & relationship coaching? Finally, my new e-commerce drresa.com site is up and running! You can purchase sex coaching, gift cards, EbyResa striptease lap dance streaming lessons, Dr. Resa's favorite sexy things, plus more! Check it out yourself, with your partner, and or have some safe, sexy fun. The more we share, the more we learn, and the more we learn, the more we grow. I love you sexy ones! Remember, you are sexy, confident, courageous, brave, and funtastic. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Explore and join my @drresa IG, Youtube, website, Patreon, Facebook, and more! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Have you traveled overseas to another country? Where have you been & where would you go? Romeo & I love to travel. We travel mostly to CA- LA, SD & SF. My favorite trip so far was in late 2016. Romeo & I went on a sexy warrior road trip from CA to NYC. We took 60 days driving cross country and took our time enjoying a dude ranch, Yellowstone, Mount Rushmore, Chicago & many other amazing places throughout America. Could you travel on your own? Where would you go & what would you do? I highly recommend trying it sometime. Start with dinner & a movie by yourself. Next time book a hotel room & enjoy you taking a bath, getting room service, watching stupid TV & sleep! Doesn’t that sound like a perfect day! Are you interested in reading a book on our sexy warrior road trips? Coming soon! We also went on an adventure in 2019! Romeo and flew to Cambodia! My good friends live there with their doggie Gryffindor! We spent time with Ellie & Angelo, to enjoy the sunshine, get out of America and enjoy time off from the hustle of bustle of NYC. This was our longest flight together. Luckily Romeo is the easiest traveler. If he is with me, he is happy and vice versa. That was 2 y* ea rs ago and now we are in Mexico. Where does the time go and where are we traveling next? While I am traveling I am also working on my biz. Here you can book sex coaching sessions, gift cards, plus you can buy Dr. Resa's favorite things. We will try to post a new picture and blog daily @drresa IG and look out for IG & FB stories & live while exploring Mexico, eating new dishes, getting massages, going to the beach, and meeting new and wonderful people. Who is ready to explore? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? You are sexy; you are confident you are funtastic! Remember to take time to breathe, smile & be the best you can be! Love you sexy ones! Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
What is a pimp? Who is a pimp? The dictionary says it is a man who controls p*rostitutes and arranges clients for them, taking part of their earnings in return. When you hear pimp, is that what you imagine or think of? I believe a pimp is a person who seeks out vulnerable individuals who have emotional dependencies and or economic needs. Pimps could be your partner, boss, friends, family, and anyone you know. If someone is manipulating you to be and do something that you do not want to do, that is pimping. We blame and guilt people instead of educating ourselves. Knowledge is power, but it is dictated by religion, money, politics, and power. How do we change that? What are steps to make us more authentic, real, true, and happy in this world? Are you ready to live a happy, authentic sexual life on your own terms? That sounds crazy, and it’s a tough decision, but if nothing changes, nothing changes. What is right or wrong? What is true or false? That means yes, and what means no? Most people have no clue what the right answer is because they don’t know. Most people don’t confront the real truth because we are scared to learn about ourselves. Instead, we make excuses and then blame others. P*rostitution is the oldest profession in the world, and the second profession was pimping. I am a consenting adult who chose sex work, and pimps are looking for the weak and vulnerable to manipulate and control them. There are always 2 sides to a story, and when conservatives are ruling America or the world, it is there a way or no way. Since the FOSTA SESTA bill on sex/human trafficking, we are just blaming and not learning and educating anyone about sex or human trafficking. We need to start teaching sex education, confidence, and loving yourself first. This bill claims to target human trafficking but removes online platforms to screen clients, share “bad date lists,” work indoors & not deal with Pimps. Be strong and sexy, my sexy ones!! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
What are your habits, vices, or routine? These habits could be bad for your health for your happiness or just not normal. We are all normal but different. The society, your family, your religion, your politics, your work, and so on... makes mostly your decisions and choices for you. Is that true? The vices we see in public like smoking, eating, drinking, tanning, swearing, plastic surgery & social media scrolling. What do you do behind closed doors? Most people see you, you are normal, but when you are alone, what are your vices? Could it be drugs-prescription or illegal, fetishes or fantasies that you think of, or role play? Do you masturbate and watch porn, have sex, eat, and do habits that others don't know about. Are you enjoying what you are doing, or does it become a habit? Are these habits good or bad, true or false, healthy or unhealthy? You are the only one who knows. Are you making all these habits for yourself or involving others. If you bring someone else into your life, please remember to use consent. This is a must and very important. What is consent, and how will you know if they are saying yes or no? Consent is permission for something to happen or agreement to do something. We all have our own vices good or bad. I have had many different ones that I still enjoy, and or they became a habit, and I chose to accept life without it. Some are a struggle to give up especially having anxiety. I am ready to be the greatest version I can be, so I choose healthy, smart, fun ways to live my life. We are all normal, sexy, and different in our own way. This makes you special, unique & more alive. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Come explore your journey with me!!! xoxo DR #drresa
Do you love men? I love people, but I crave men!!! What’s happening with America? I am not loving men right now, and I understand why more people become feminists. I am just Resa and getting to love and understand me, but I also love others. I feel like men worldwide are scared to give up their power to control women and the world. Men, you are on your last string....lets just cut the string, move forward, become equal, and see how the world changes for the better. Do you know why men are so great at what they do and why they are who they are? Because of their mothers, sisters, and the women they married and or who they are dating. Women make these men become the best at their job and in their lives. What would men do without us? We are sexy, loving, caring & the best gift for men. If you love being conservative & a Trump fan, your main reason is that you don’t want to give up your power, your control, and your money. The women of these men are enjoying being the wives(slaves) and shutting up. Not sure why they would live that way, but they don’t want to change. Change is scary. Wake up, America, and let's unite and love each other. Wouldn’t life be so much more passionate, sexy, and thrilling if we stopped hating people because of our different religions, cultures & beliefs? We are all human; we are all the same; we all have feelings, we want to be cared for and loved for & we have a community to go to. Do you want that in your sexy life? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Let's start that sexy journey & follow Dr. Resa, sexy sexologist, on this wild ride. The next blog will be on sex trafficking & what does that mean to you? I believe everyone, even married people, is sex trafficked in their own home. Trafficking means controlling, manipulating, and making the other weak. Married women or men, are you trafficked & stuck and can't get out because of family, money & control? I would love to hear your stories. Remember, you are sexy! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you ready for this year? Lots in store for Dr. Resa, the spicy love, relationship, confidence dating coach. Are you ready to see my new and improved e-commerce online store websites? If you can tell in this picture, I am so ready! Look out for the new Instagram, Facebook, Youtube videos, Twitter, Snapchat, Tiktok, Triller, Reddit, Tumblr, photos, videos, books, blogs, podcasts, webinars, online courses, ZOOM workshops, and so much more. Remember to subscribe, like, comment, share, follow, and the more we learn, the more we teach, the more we change! If nothing changes, nothing changes. Are you ready to be your true authentic self? Please take a deep breath and have a hot, flirty, fun, safe year!! You are hot, confident, amazing, fantastic, and you deserve the best. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Happy 2021 Sexy New Year! How were your holidays and your New Years'? Did you get the presents you wished for? Were they sexy, kinky, open-minded like you wanted? What was the naughtiest ornament you saw on a tree or wreath this year? Did you see condoms, lube, a penis, a clitoris, a vulva or breast ornament, or anything sex-positive and healthy on your tree or as a present? Sex education, knowledge, and the more we speak our real selves, the more we learn and teach others. Don’t miss the sexy sexologist DrResa Youtube channel on the sexy Christmas tree decoration videos. Subscribe to get updated on vulva, penis wreath videos on sexy ways to clean your genitalia & many more! It’s the new year, and it’s all about you & loving you first!! Take time today and touch yourself, love yourself, and learn all about your sexy body inside and out. An orgasm a day keeps the stress away. Ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Let’s do it together, one orgasm at a time. I love you, sexy ones! You are sexy, confident, amazing, and worth it. Xoxo ps. hopefully, the last holiday video to enjoy. xoxo, DR #drresa
I am missing my NYC Holidays Christmas Tree/Chanukah Bush! If you forgot, please watch the video and other Dr.Resa YouTubes when the tree was not naked! The theme for last year's bush was a sex-positive and a health education tree with a sexy, fun, flirty side! Last year, do you remember the ornaments that I decorated my tree? I wore many sexy outfits in the videos and photos while decorating and talking about the sex-ed Chrismaka tree! I wore mostly red, but I love all the different lingerie and fun holiday dresses and costumes. Watch out for more Instagram, Facebook, and Youtube Live videos and pics, enjoying the rest of the year celebrating the holidays. What will Dr. Resa, the sexy Sexologist, and @romeobluetheshihtzu be singing, dancing, talking about, and wearing the rest of the year? Please send me your sexy awesome creative ornament & outfit ideas? The more you share, the more we learn! Think about when you were growing up & what you wish you learned in a sexual education class in school or at home? Did you learn anything at all? What kind of ornament would you of loved on your tree to teach you about sex? Please share your story. This tree and many others will help us be more sex health positive. Let's work together with one orgasm at a time and make a difference! Remember, you are sexy, confident, beautiful, awesome, and much more! Have a wonderful sexy day, and don’t forget to self-love yourself every day and be your true authentic sexual self. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa #ebyresa
P.S can I be your sexy ornament?
Merry Sexy Christmas and Happy almost New Year! Are you having a spicy holiday? Are you ready for more sexy sexologist striptease lap dance pictures, blogs, videos, webinars, classes, books, coaching, workshops & an online shopping experience? We need our sex-positive voices more than ever on Youtube, IG, Twitter, or talking to s*trangers while walking our dogs. (especially now with the Fosta Bill in effect) I always say one o*rgasm a day keeps the stress away. I realize more and more how we are more alike, even with our different issues, beliefs—upbringing, lifestyles, or religions. We want love, community, acceptance, and to feel alive, happy, and healthy. Everyone finds it at different levels in a church, cult, friends, groups, etc. I wish more would be about love, being honest and truthful, but sadly most are about hate, money, power, and control. We hear it, seeing it, feeling it right in front of our eyes—the lovely cell phone-computer that we depend on and (I wouldn't say I like the word) but addicted to. I know I am procrastinating most of the time not to do the real, deep, honest things that we would love to do—Ready for more videos, blogging, flirting, having sex, and orgasms. Hmm, wonder why we are not? From guilt, shame, anxiety, fear. If nothing changes, nothing changes. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? You are ready for change and a new sexy lifestyle? Explore!!! xoxo, DR #drresa
What kind of ornament would you put on a sex educational Christmas Tree/Hanukkah Bush? What kind of sexy, real, authentic gift would you like under the tree this year? Please share your ornament ideas and stories. The more we share, the more we learn, the more we become our true sexy (s)elves! Winter and the holidays in NYC, I decided to get a tree! How would a sexy sexologist decorate a tree? Hmm, sexy, kinky, educational, funny, and something different? Please check out all the sexy, funny Christmas holiday videos at Youtube.com/drresa! Are you ready to see me in some sexy Santa outfits talking about the first-ever sex educational holiday tree? What kind of ornaments was on my holiday bush last year? Come check them out? What sexy ornaments does your Christmas tree have? This holiday I am working on the ABC's of Sexy. What would your sexy ABC's be? Comment below, and I may add it to my tree! Remember today is #flirtyfriday, my sexy ones. You are sexy, confident, fabulous, amazing, and worth every moment! Enjoy, and have a wonderful weekend. xoxo, DR #sexysexologist #sexychristmas #drresa #ebyresa
What is a vulva? What is a vagina? Clitoris? Healthy sexy ways to love and learn about female genitalia. Let’s celebrate almost Christmas and talk about smart, fun ways of cleaning your genitals. Expectations of shaving/trimming your pubic hair for both men and women. What are some fetishes that go along with pubic hair, how some people have a very opinionated way women “should” look, and how some people really don’t care either way? Maybe how it’s been done throughout history, with merkins and stuff. The vulva is the correct term for all the external organs that include the mons pubis (pubic mound), the labia major, and minora. The only organ solely for pleasure is the clitoris. The external openings of the urethra (also known as the hole you p*ee from) and the vagina. The vagina is an elastic, muscular canal that connects the uterus to the vulva. This is where babies pass through during childbirth, as well as a woman’s m*enstrual flow. Look for the IG live video on the vulva and penis wreath. Watch the full Youtube.com/drresa videos on genital health! Xoxo DR #sexychristmas #sexysexologist #drresa #ebyresa #selfcaresunday @drresa @sexysexologist @romeobluetheshihtzu @ Manhattan, New York
What part of 2020 were you the happiest and felt the healthiest and most alive? Please share your stories below. The more we learn, listen, grow, the more we help ourselves and others. How are you going to start 2021 on a positive note to be your true authentic sexual self? Are you ready? Every day I am learning and trying to be better for myself and you. I struggle every day with anxiety and stress, especially during holidays and the end of the year. Am I doing the right thing? Should we keep going? Yes, we should & do it sexy. Plus, it makes us push ourselves even further. Daily reminders help and writing and being positive, focusing, slowing down, and enjoying life to the fullest. We don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow. Are you living every day with passion, love, and happiness? It’s the holidays, and most people spend money they don’t have, live way over their means on credit cards and debt. Does that stress you out? What happened to America? The bigger, the better syndrome on the bigger the house, the bigger the diamond ring, the more expensive car, shoes, and extravagant fake, unrealistic life. For what? For image? Are you ready to slow down and enjoy time with your family, talk, hug, play board games, and really connect? What family traditions did you play or do growing up? Holidays this year, get off your phone, computer, camera, television for at least an hour. Sounds hard and crazy, right! Spend time with the ones you love and experience family, friends, and loved ones without technology. Please share how you felt before, during, and after you get off the media-technology challenge? We don't need the stuff to make us happy. Do we? We need love, connection, food, water, and shelter. That's it! Are you really happy and healthy inside and out? Are you having sex, connection, and orgasms? Want to hear my story and how I became a minimalist, road trip crossed country to NYC and my life as the sexy sexologist? Please join our @drresa sexy adventures and come for the ride.... xoxo, DR #drresa
Who loves listening to podcasts? Did you know I was on a few podcasts this year? Plus I started my own Podcast. Did you listen to them? I would love to start my weekly sexy podcast in 2021, or better yet, I would love to be on your podcast in the coming years!!! Please check out Season 2 She said yes podcast with Trista and Alex wedding planners. BTS Event Management Let's talk sex: a healthy sex life pre & post-wedding! Thank you so much for inviting me to your wedding planner talks. I loved every minute of talking to these ladies about hot topics. Here are a few of the questions we dived into! Please listen, repeat, repost, share and tell anyone & everyone about the podcast. My segment starts around 26 minutes in. The first part was at the royal wedding! Comment below and share your stories, thoughts, ideas!! Breathe, connect, learn, love, and remember we are all here from an orgasm, so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time. What is your story? Explore and live your life to the fullest! @shesaidyespodcast xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
Religion and the Bible are the main negatives, unhealthy parts of politics, and the issues that are happening now. What do you think? New YouTube video up!!! Let’s talk about it! Find my channel in the bio to watch the full video! Mike, my neighbor, and I are having a conversation. Start talking to people about relationships, politics, life, and experiences. You may learn something new you never thought of. Starting talking on zoom holiday parties, work events, family dinners, board meetings 1.Get off the phone, television, media for once and TALK, have a real conversation. 2.We need your voice more than ever now. What is happening with America right now needs to change. Every day the conservative Republicans and Trump are building their dictatorship. The last standing white racist, fascist, xenophobic, and misogynistic bible thumpers need to end now. What are we going to do about it? I would love to hear your opinions to prove me right or wrong. I am speaking my mind, writing blogs, videoing Youtubes, and hopefully entertaining you folks on the way! With my hot, witty, real, healthy, positive ways of thinking. I would love to hear what you are doing on #selfcaresunday to make a difference. xoxo, DR #drresa
Where was I in my sexologist journey 8 y*rs ago? Wow, where does the time go? I was living in sunny San Diego for 18 y*rs and loving every moment of it. I got my Bachelors in Business Marketing at SDSU; I stripped to help me pay for college, I bought the property, traveled and built EbyResa Striptease Lap Dance Lessons. San Diego living was a huge part of my 20s and 30’s. Eight y*rs ago, I taught striptease lap dance lessons daily, and I was ready for a change to be more credible. I decided to move to San Francisco in 2013 to get my doctorate in human sexuality! Big change going back to school, new city, new friends, and trying to get my EbyResa biz up and going in SF. During this time, my pug Bailey was almost 13 with arthritis, she was not using her legs to walk, and she became incontinent. I was her mom, sister, caretaker, and I would do it over again at any time. 5 m*onths after moving to SF, I put my little doggy down. One of the hardest choices to make, but I knew we had an amazing life together, and now she is running in heaven. After her passing, lots of changes happened. I became more spiritual, went to Burning Man, sold my house in San Diego, and became a minimalist. I adopted a new doggy in 2015 named Romeo Blue. Such a firecracker dog, and we were ready for a change. Living in San Francisco for 3 y*rs, we were ready for the next chapter. Sexy warrior road trip across the USA to NYC! On September 1st, 2016, Romeo and I drove off from SF and headed on our journey. Where were we going to? What were you doing? (Roadtrip blog coming soon and maybe a book)we took 35 days to Chicago. I stayed a month and departed to NYC. I finally made it to NYC right before New Year's 2017! Almost a y*r later, I am still in NYC, loving this incredible city. (2020 In Mexico during the pandemic) So exciting that I get to share my vision with you on IG, Facebook, Youtube. What are you interested in learning? 2020 Changed my path to Mexico. Are you interested in hearing about my life in 2020? So much to #share #learn #follow #subscribe
Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it, but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty, just like you. We get busy, we make excuses, or we don’t think about it. Ready to change that? It is the end of the year, and we get busy and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel, and guess what, it’s free fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first, the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas, and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you, and what do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from an orgasm, so let's talk about it. Sex is so taboo we are getting shadowbanned, flagged, removed, and the SESTA FOSTA law is making our lives and so many others more scary and harmful. Do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO, I will keep talking, teaching, and speaking about SEX. I speak my truth, and I am in the best city with a sexy vengeance. Are you ready for me? I am Resa, the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self? What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are we all suppressed and blame each other? What about blaming yourself? Fear from family, politics, friends, work, religion turns into power, control, and money. What is true, false, real, fake? Join Dr. Resa, Sexy Sexologist, behind closed doors, talking about hot topics on consent, privilege, bills, debt, credit. Global warming and more!! Please say hi, share, like, comment below!! xoxo, DR
Remember, if nothing changes, nothing changes. I have always spoken my truth, and now I have a platform online to speak to more people!
These 2 amazing platforms helped me build my business and get noticed on the first page of google. It took a lot of time, commitment, persistence, and consistent copy and pasting. It was a great way to advertise for free and build relationships and clients through a safer, quicker outlet and build a real business out of it. Over the years, I was flagged, or my ads were removed. When it first happened, I did not understand why someone would flag me. Years later, I realized religion is powered by money and control. I wasn’t going to let that stop me. I would post another ad and work and thought of many different angles to advertise online to grow my business. Many other people in the sex industry and or any business relied on these 2 helpful websites to grow their brand and business. It was a great feeling to finally speak our truth, a way for people to find us online, and a way to build a prosperous business through a free outlet. I kept on advertising on these sites and enjoying the outcome. From there, Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, and many other online platforms came into play. It was a way for myself and many others to build a social media presence for ourselves and many others. We built our lives, businesses, families, friends by these safe new exciting platforms. Since this bill passed in April 2018, many of us have lost our incomes, our websites, our social media pages, and most important online reviews and blacklist websites to keep us safe. I am still working and posting on Instagram and syncing it to Facebook and Twitter. I am shadowbanned and not sure who can find me. With all my hard work, all my social media pages can disappear at any moment. The rest of the blog coming soon. xoxo, DR #drresa
Did you know I am shadowbanned and it is hard for you to find me? With all my hard work, all my social media pages can disappear at any moment. Not a safe, fun feeling when this is my livelihood and passion. This bill is trying to keep anyone speaking about s*ex behind the scenes on all these sites. If we get enough flags on these applications, we will get removed or blocked by advertising on IG or FB. How do we move forward if no one can find us? Do I go back to basics and pass out business cards, knock on doors, and hope for the best? I am ready to be global and would love to speak worldwide about helping you become your true authentic sexual self. I will keep on breaking down the walls and speaking my s*exy words through any platform I can find. December 17th, 2018, Tumbler banned all adult content. There are so many social media platforms to choose from but also many to overwhelm us. I never learned or advertised on Tumbler. What would you do if you counted on all these free speech platforms for your business? They are removing us because we talk about s*ex, and there is always a positive and negative about s*ex or anything we do in our lives. We are all here from an orgasm, and we can’t even talk about it on here or out loud!!! The Fosta is a way to remove the platform for s*ex and human trafficking. By removing these platforms, will it stop trafficking? What about the consenting adults who relied on these websites and applications? I realized conservatives don’t care about individuals or us. The only thing we can do is keep speaking our truth and to VOTE. If you love s*trip clubs, tantrikas, sex workers, sensual massages, sex coaches, s*ex educators, lingerie stores, camming, porn stars, and or anything related to s*ex, please learn more about Fosta and the positive side of the sex industry and why we are so important to this world. xoxo, DR
When you hear HUMP Day, What do you think of? Midweek, having sex, or it’s just another day? As a sexologist, my mind thinks of it as Humping :) Who calls sex humping anymore, but it seems like we do on this certain day. Every Wednesday, I will be sharing sex advice, sex stories, sex hump positions to try, sexy hump day quotes, and sexy articles. The more you share, the more we learn. Comment below, DM me and tell me what you would love to hear on Hump Day! Remember, you are sexy, confident, and beautiful inside & out! Love yourself, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self! Please join, share, repost, like, comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and Patreon, and let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Your word of mouth helps, so please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining my Dr. Resa Patreon page. Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
How does your body feel today? Do you have any aches, pains, sores? Do you have stomach bowel issues? Do you have anxiety or depression? What are you doing today about it? Do you go to the doctor? Do you tell anyone? Do you ignore the symptoms because of health insurance issues? Do you drink alcohol, eat badly, and take prescription drugs or illegal drugs not to feel the pain? I would love to hear your stories about your health, your bodies, your health insurance, and any advice you would love to share. This is a big subject that will affect all of us. For the last 20 years, I have been an independent contractor in the sex worker world. I pay my taxes and health insurance. Do you? I used to have the best of the best and only pay $100 a month for a $500 deductible. Next year I may be paying over $600 a month(not including medications and doctor visits) and a $5000 or more deductible.
Health insurance is on the rise, and if we don’t do anything about it now. Most people who are not billionaires will be in debt by health bills, credit card debt, school loans, and much more. Sooner than later if we don’t start speaking our truth. How does that make you feel? The more you share your stories, the more we learn to make it a healthy, sex-positive world! xoxo, DR #drresa
Where would your new home be if you could move Today & Why? Could you sell & get rid of everything & go on your own adventure? What would you name your adventure? Comment below!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
