What's going on in your head today? What are you going to do to hear less chatter & enjoy this lovely day? I would love to listen to your ideas? Have you met someone who is amazing & wants to hear & listen? Did you know I offer sex, relationship, and confidence coaching? You can talk to me!!! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-10-20 13:44:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Sex & Anxiety I feel like it's a hidden disease. Do you? Do you want to learn more? Every day I'm learning & sharing my story to help you. Writing it down, speaking it, videoing it, whatever works to feel better, feel alive, feel worthy, feel whole. My anxiety & mind chatter all day gets in the way with SEX...Like, Follow my @askdrresa Facebook Page for more Sex-Positive Advice! Our body and mind are our new toy, adventure, exploration, love, passion, a pleasure to find your strength, confidence your most fabulous self & live your fullest potential! Everything I am saying I work on daily to be "awake, aware & available" it's sometimes a tough journey. Still, please keep smiling, be positive, be real, try something new & uncomfortable, touch yourself, love yourself!Sex & Anxiety is big topic. This week I'm working on posting articles, videos, quotes, stories, singing, dancing & me being vulnerable, raw, real honest with my stories & how I can help you! You are listening. You want to be a better, more optimistic, nice, caring human being. You are ready to build your self-esteem & get your sexy groove back! You are confident you are beautiful; you are lovely. Love yourself first inside & out & you will see a new sexy glow that you have been waiting for! I can't wait for you to share your stories, your strengths & How you deal with Sex & Anxiety daily? Check out drresa dot com for sex, relationship and confidence coaching. xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-10-17 13:21:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it, but I don't masturbate enough. I am guilty, just like you. We get busy, we make excuses, or we don't think about it. Ready to change that? It is the end of the year, and we get busy and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel, and guess what it's free fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we know and love ourselves first, the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas, and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you, and what do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from the Big O, so let's talk about it. It is so taboo we are getting shadowbanned, flagged, removed, and the SESTA FOSTA law is making our lives and so many others more scary and harmful. So do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO, I will keep talking, teaching, and speaking about SEX. I express my truth, and I am in the best city with a sexy vengeance. Are you ready for me? I am Resa, the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self? What is your story? Explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo #drresa
2021-10-15 12:10:06 +0000 UTC View PostAre you ready for some new s*xy photos, videos, and blogs? I wake up every morning, loving what I do. Do you? This is my passion, my livelihood, and I was born this way!!! I think, breathe, and get excited by helping people like you become their genuinely authentic s*xual selves. Yes, I post many taboo, risqué, forbidden photos. Are the photos and videos catching your attention? Photoshoots and cameras bring anxiety to my body, so I get scared of being in front of a camera. The more you practice you get so comfortable and confident, and through this new journey, you become your s*xy self. Would you take a boudoir photoshoot? I highly recommend anybody and everyone to try it at least once. Are you ready to join my VIP S*xy Memberships? There are many different choices to choose from.Are you enjoying the more revealing photos and videos of me? (The ones that are forbidden on Instagram). Join onlyfans/drresa. Are you on Snapchat? Join fancentro/drresa to indulge in my daily VIP snaps. Do you need s*x, relationship, and confidence coaching? Join my Drresa dot com website and read the FAQs. If I need coaching, we all need coaching. It keeps us healthy and sane to talk to someone we are comfortable with and trust. I would love to be your first s*x doctor. Let’s sign you up? Would you like to be a fly on my wall? I am launching a voyeur, spy camera, s*x advice, and a live cam behind the scenes. So would you please email me to be on the early bird list? I am writing lots of informative, s*xually healthy, s*x educational, funny, witty blogs. So please comment, like, share, talk, join, subscribe to all my social media platforms. Remember, you are worth it, you are brave, you are s*xy. xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-10-13 14:50:58 +0000 UTC View PostMasturbation Monday on over & enjoy me in a bubble bath! Cum join me & get nice & wet! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-11 12:37:46 +0000 UTC View PostWhat would you do to me on this sexy balcony overlooking the Caribbean Sea? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-09 00:22:08 +0000 UTC View PostWould you skinny dip and get naked with me in a public swimming pool, bay or ocean? What would happen if we got caught? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-07 21:52:45 +0000 UTC View PostI loved living on the beaches of Mexico during Covid 2020! I loved the fresh air, the beach, the ocean, the wind in my hair. Now that’s it’s getting colder on the east coast, you will see more clothes on me. Enjoy this sexy photoshoot! Check your mailbox to see the full videos for a price upgrade!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-05 00:02:51 +0000 UTC View PostCum flirt with me on this Friday!! Tip me, spoil me & let’s have some naked fun!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-01 13:17:32 +0000 UTC View PostWill you catch me? Watch out for a paid upgrade email to see me get fully naked on the ropes! What would you do to me on here?! Xoxo 💋 #drresa
2021-09-30 16:20:41 +0000 UTC View PostDo you like my mask costume? Should I wear it for Halloween? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-09-29 00:05:26 +0000 UTC View PostHalloween 👻 🎃 or Day of the Dead costume!! Enjoy this video! The rest of the video will be a paid upgrade! Check your mailbox 📫 tomorrow! You will love it! Xoxo 💋
2021-09-28 01:42:29 +0000 UTC View PostDo you like mushrooms? Tip me how much you love to taste my mushrooms? Enjoy!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-09-26 14:08:51 +0000 UTC View Post
What song would you striptease to for your partner or yourself? I’m a slave for you by Britney Spears was a top favorite song I loved to strip to! Shout out to Britney. I saw her in concert years ago, but next time she is touring, I will be at her concert, and I will be Live on IG dancing to that song! I also had a sticker of Britney in my locker at the strip club. Wow. That was over 20 years ago! I love her costumes, her dance moves, and her confidence through this particular song and video! Do you remember the yellow seven-foot albino Burmese python that was wrapped around Britney’s body while shaking her hips? Wasn’t that sexy? Are you ready to make a sexy playlist to do a striptease lap dance? Comment below? Check the video clip from EbyResa’s striptease sexy Saturday move. Today’s move is the snake that you can add to your crawl routine—interested in watching more videos? Please join my Patreon Drresa Sexy Sexologist page and or download and practice all the Striptease Lap Dance moves on my site. Plus, I am on Amazon Ebyresa DVDs or stream them at home! Great Holiday Gifts! Remember to keep your partner engaged. Always smile, laugh, and make it fun. If you are enjoying what you are doing, that is the most important. You loving yourself first and enjoying these moves are healthy sexy positive changes to a happier life! Feel sexy, feel good! All the posts I share are beneficial, confident steps to live the best amazing sexy life. I am learning and teaching myself and you every day. What are you doing today to start your journey? Are you ready to join mine? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-23 23:12:24 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you remember what life was like before cell phones? Do you miss times when people would talk, not take pictures of everything and live life at that moment? What would you do if you didn’t have your cell phone for 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, or even 1 y*r? Do you get a lot done when you use your phone, or do you waste more time swiping, scrolling, and doing things that don’t really matter? Do you get on your phone more when you have anxiety or when you get shy, and it’s your security blanket? I am guilty, just like you. It’s a bad habit that we are all doing, and we are not living our lives as we did before. You may have never experienced life without a phone, and now it’s strapped to us every moment of our life. With our phones in our hands, we forget how to communicate, look up and say hi or smile and even hug or hold our partner or friend's hands. We are turning into robots moving along in this crazy world. We don’t even need a chip in our bodies. They know where we are, who we are, and what we are doing. There are many positives of having everything and anything at our fingertips using our phones. I love that I can travel cross country and use my phone to book hotels, map where I am going, connect with family and friends and work anywhere and everywhere! My passion, my livelihood, and my business are in the sex industry world. Luckily I can build my brand globally by using my phone, the internet, and these crazy social media platforms. Plus, we don’t even have to leave our homes to m*eet a partner. Just swipe right, and you may get lucky. Today is #tapyourtulipstuesday. Take time off your phone & start dancing, moving, and feeling your body. Put some music on but wait, do you have to use your cell for that? 🙂 I still have CDs, records, and my favorite Amazon Prime Alexa. Remember, you are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Did you know I offer sex, relationship, confidence coaching? Check my drresa.com. Please join one or all the different social media platforms I am on and choose what best fits your needs. xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-14 18:35:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Where was I in my sexologist journey 8 y*rs ago? Wow, where does the time go? I was living in sunny San Diego for 18 y*rs and loving every moment of it. I got my bachelor's in Business Marketing at SDSU; I stripped to help me pay for college, bought property, traveled, and built EbyResa Striptease Lap Dance Lessons. San Diego living was a huge part of my 20s and 30’s. 10 y*rs ago, I was teaching striptease lap dance lessons daily, and I was ready for a change to be more credible. I decided to move to San Francisco in 2013 to get my doctorate in human sexuality at the Institute of Human Sexuality. Ted McIlvenna, the founder and owner, started IASHS in 1976. On August 22, 2018, Ted passed away at 86 years old. He will be remembered as a mentor, teacher, human rights activist, and keeping myself and others to learn and love the world of sexology. From day 1 until his death, he fought to believe in the process and keep speaking our truth about sexual health and sex education. Such an important part of our world is taboo, and we are all here from sexual intercourse and orgasm. Please keep talking, learning, sharing, and telling others about the world of sexology. (Blog Post coming soon about Ted and my journey getting my doctorate.) This was a big change for me, going back to school, new city, new friends, and trying to get my EbyResa biz up and surviving. My pug Bailey was almost 13 with arthritis; she was not using her legs to walk and became incontinent. I was her mom, sister, caretaker, and I would do it over again any time. 5 months after moving to SF, I put my little doggy down. One of the hardest choices to make, but I knew we had an amazing life together, and now she is running in heaven. After her passing, lots of changes happened. I became more spiritual, went to Burning Man, sold my house in San Diego, and became a minimalist. What is your story? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-13 23:11:39 +0000 UTC View Post
On September 11, 2001, what were you doing? Where we you at? Were you born yet? Were you living a great life or building your life? I was in San Diego, still sleeping. My phone started ringing, and everyone called and started watching their televisions. Schools and work closed for the day, and you can tell everything changed from that moment on. I was y*oung, not into politics, religion, and having fun. In 2001, I graduated from San Diego State University, I was stripping at Cheetahs in San Diego, and I was saving money to buy my first home. I was studying for my real estate license. In 2001 I was only 24, and I was ready to start my sexy journey. I loved it; I was having fun and in the risky mood of buying a property. I wanted to purchase and own properties, own a few cars, hire a cleaning crew for my home, car, hot tub, etc. On top of that, I started my own striptease lap dance lessons by EbyResa. I taught weekly classes, workshops, networking events and kept busy. I loved this part of my life, but we work and work and work to pay for things, stuff, and materialistic bullshit. Why because we want to be accepted, wanted, and then we become BROKE. Does that sound like you? We all have been there, and I decided to change. For the past five years, I have been getting rid of crap, stuff, bills, homes, cars, and extra expenses that I had no idea. Does that sound like you? We all get stuck in the media/political bubble of what is right or wrong or live the bigger, the better, the bigger the car, the home, the diamond, money, gold, etc. What happens from there? Most people are in credit card, school, and or health debt. That means we are completely broke. That is what America and the world want us to be. That is not the world I want to live in. In 2001 my one-bedroom apartment in San Diego was only $750, and in 2019 I bet it’s over $2000. Since 2001 nothing has changed for the middle class or poor. It has gotten way too expensive for the average person. Everything and anything goes up in price, and we are not making enough money to survive. What happens when you get fired and you can’t find another job? You have no savings, lots of bills to pay, and you have no credit. I am bringing this up because we need to start waking up and making America sexy again. What is sexy? Being confident, real, authentic, courageous, genuine, caring! We need to start with you. What do you want in 2021 and 2022 and the rest of your life? You need to register to vote now and Vote2022. What is sexy to you? Is buying and living a lie and trying to be someone else a great feeling. Are you ready to be you!! I know I am! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-12 22:39:04 +0000 UTC View Post
It's been a wild week, month, and year—lots of emotions & life changes. We need to focus on being positive. Let's keep thinking good thoughts & help as much as we can, and give as much as we can. That's with life & love and living each day to the fullest. You never know what's going to happen! What are you going to do today to live your life to the fullest? I'm working on my Dr. Resa Sexy Sexologist's biz. My vision, my goals & how I can help You! Your stories, ideas, inspirations help you & help me & many others! Remember, the more you learn & love yourself first, the more you love & give to others! Try a new position with your partner or a new technique today. Would you please tell us about it? What's your story? I would love to hear about it? xoxo, DR @drresa
2021-09-11 18:28:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Would you use a Masturbation Orgasm Tracker App? I have been working on one! Who would love an app right on your phone to journal and track when and how you masturbated today? You can track and update your orgasms to remind you to take time out of your day for self-care, release and or meditate. The 3 P’s practice, persistence, and patience will help you learn new ways to love your body inside and out. Start your day off right by masturbating, and then fill out the MOT form. Comment below or DM me your email address for a FREE Sex MOT Form! Ready to help me design a phone app with your daily tips and experience? I will need comprehensive data about your personal sex life. This will obtain a healthier perspective on sex in your relationships and on your own. We will also track your eating, exercise, bowel, and m*enstruation to help improve your physical health. This will also help change past behavior into more sex-healthy positive habits. Masturbating daily and having full-body orgasms, connecting and communicating with yourself and or partner. Plus having fun, spontaneous sex more often. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? The app will have tips, tricks, quizzes, plus more to get you in a sexy mood. What would you like to see on a Masturbation Orgasm Tracker? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-10 13:16:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Self-care for You? I dance, sing around mostly to musical theater and some other genres 🙂 What's your favorite musical? Or what do you dance & sing to? I would love to see your self-care practices? This helps me get out of my anxious mind & enjoy moments, slow down & really get into the moves, the connection, the feeling! It's a choice & a decision & I'm still working on it. The more I practice anything, the more I feel more confident & Sexy. That makes me feel alive! What about you? xoxo, R #drresa
2021-09-09 17:39:36 +0000 UTC View Post
To really learn and love yourself, you have to get deep, raw, and real with yourself. You will have to ask yourself a lot of questions and experience many new things. Does that sound scary? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? I learn every day by speaking my truth, being vulnerable, and showing you who I am through my blogs, videos, and social media. Interested in my sex intake form for sex, relationship & confidence coaching? This form will help you start your journey to start living your sexy, confident real self! Comment below or DM me your email address for your own sexual history intake form. xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-02 15:31:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Summers almost over! What's something you have never done? Why are you waiting to do it? Because you are scared, other people's advice, busy, too difficult, we give up. Romeo & I are starting a Challenge? Who's ready to join me? 45 sexy things to do now that I'm almost 45! I started a list before I was 40! #noexcuses I'm finishing the list. I will share my list of 45 winning prizes who join the Challenge. Are you ready to join us with your list, inspiration, stories, photos! Happy Wednesday Hump Day! Come play with me! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-01 17:12:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Summer is almost over! What's something you have never done? Why are you waiting to do it? Because you are scared, other people's advice, busy, too difficult, we give up. Romeo & I are starting a Challenge? Who's ready to join me? 44 sexy things to do now that I'm 44! I started a list before I was 40 #noexcuses I'm finishing the list. I will share my list of 40 winning prizes joining the Challenge, the rules & we would love for you to join us with your list, inspiration, stories, photos! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-28 15:33:19 +0000 UTC View Post
Are you being safe? In this crazy new world we live in we need to make smart choices. Have you always been safe wearing condoms? How about washing your hands and wearing masks? These things have more to do with thinking of the safety of others, not just you. What do you do during these changing times to be safe in the streets and in the sheets? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-27 15:10:47 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you want to hear me talking about my dating life? What about sexy #selfcare ideas? I would love to talk about that, but politics get in the way, and if we don’t speak our truth and fix these issues, myself and many others will go away. What that means- onlyfans, all online dating, social sites, porn sites, and anything sexual. Many more sex video/toy stores & strip clubs will shut their doors. Wake up, America. We need to make America sexy again or finally. That means loving yourself & knowing your passions, beliefs, and desires. Take away what your family, work, religion, politics, friends want, but what do you want? Trump is organizing a dictatorship, terrorist/hate groups right in front of our eyes. It’s been there all along but hates and dividing the world is because of power, money, control, and religion is the entryway to brainwashing you. Trump is speaking to his voters and not talking like a president to all of the people. Separation of church and state the first amendment is a crock of shit. It’s been happening for years. There is an underground government & religion, and it’s called The Family. Watch it on Netflix. Have you heard of the prayer breakfast? They pray to Jesus and talk conservative ways, and if you don’t believe in this, you are nothing to them. Trump is building his kingdom, his terrorist and hate groups, and it will get worse & scarier with Trump and McConnell in office. Thank god they are out of the office! This is happening worldwide because of phones in our hands, media/ news we choose to watch & read, and who we spend time with. Do you know this is how people become manipulated, brainwashed, and a dictatorship? Do not let him in the office again. It’s 2021; we need to wake up & realize we are everything; we are sexy, human, and alive. Love you, sexy ones!! xoxo, DR
2021-08-25 19:57:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Did you set up a photoshoot? It builds confidence, memories, helps with anxiety, explores new places, sees a different side of yourself and others, and many other healthy ways to build yourself up! What kind of Photos are you going to be in or take? Please comment below, and I would love to see your photos? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-24 14:42:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Masturbation Monday my sexy, hot spicy ones!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-08-09 17:27:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Is masturbation one of your habits? Do you self-touch and self-explore every day? When you touch yourself, do you use your hands and fingers? Or do you use a dildo, vibrator, or a sex toy? What’s your form of getting excited to self-pleasure yourself? Pornography or sexy photos on your phone, computer, DVDs, VHS tapes, magazines, or a fantasy/imagination? Have you tried mutual masturbation with your partner? What about spicing up your self-care regimen with different positions, a new location, not using porn or a toy, and trying something different. We get used to a daily habit, and if we change it up, we usually find out so much more about ourselves! Would you please share your stories below? The more we think about it, the more we talk about it, the more we learn. Today is flirt Friday! Take time for yourself and start your week off with a bang. Remember, you are sexy, confident, courageous, and worth it. Love you sexy ones!! Xoxo 💋#drresa
2021-08-06 16:42:45 +0000 UTC View Post
What are the 3 P’s to achieve multiple body orgasms? Practice, Patience, and Persistence. Are you having orgasms? Do you only release one orgasm, and you are done? Have you ever experienced multiple full-body orgasms? There are so many reasons why I am so passionate about teaching masturbation and orgasms. It is healthy, pleasurable, accessible, and fun. It helps with stress, anxiety, sleep, pain, and so many other positive benefits. So why is it so hard for myself and others to let go and have the best orgasms? Just turning 44 I am still trying to figure that out. A few reasons we are not having the best sex and orgasms are religion, politics, society on guilt and shame, and no sex education. I have been masturbating for 22 years. I enjoy it, but I also have high anxiety and attention deficit disorder (ADD). I have to work extremely hard to relax and feel every sensation. It gets frustrating and sometimes, and I want to give up. Do you ever feel this way? What do you do about it? I don’t have enough orgasms, but I keep practicing, trying to have patience, and being persistent 🙂 When I release, I feel like a new person. I would love to masturbate and have a body orgasm at least once a day. The more we practice, patience and persistence, you get results. If you are interested in more sexy photos, videos, blogs, please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining my Dr. Resa Patreon page! Link on Bio! Your word of mouth helps, so don’t forget to join, share, repost, like, comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and Patreon, and let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Have a sexy wonderful day. You deserve it! Xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-05 17:22:27 +0000 UTC View Post