Have you tried anal sex? Are you thinking about trying anal sex? Suppose you consider any sex but specifically anal sex. In that case, I recommend getting tested for STDs, wearing condoms, using a lot of lube, and communicating with your partner about sex-positive healthy questions before a sexual act is an innovative, safe, and fun way to start learning consent and boundaries. Do you know kids have more anal sex because they think they are still virgins and pure? This is why we need to VOTE and have sex education in schools and teach kids & parents the healthy parts of sexual health and sex positivity. Do you vote? Are you Registered to Vote? Please remember to Register to Vote today! This is a Lovely Human Voice. We still have to VOTE! Tell others, and on Tuesday, November 8, 2022, VOTE! Please comment below that you Registered!
Voting is sexy, and our body is sexier! Ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Start asking yourself questions and exploring your passions. What do you love and enjoy? Building your confidence and self-love helps you learn about yourself. This will help you attract healthy sex-positive partners, relationships, and jobs and enhance your sexy wonderful life! What questions would you ask yourself? What questions would you ask your partner? Share below, and I will send you a FREE 10 sexy, healthy, positive questions to ask a new partner. Remember, you are sexy, confident, and beautiful inside & out! Love yourself, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self!
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Are you religious? Do you go to church weekly? Do you talk about science and religion? Have you had an abortion, mammograms, MRIs, IVF, or any procedure? Do you take medicines to keep you healthier and alive? Science and technology developed these surprising ways for us to stay on our life journey longer. If you are religious and you want to get pregnant, are you exploring scientific methods to get pregnant? IVF, acupuncture, freezing eggs, etc. Hmm, are you being a hypocrite or lying to yourself that it is ok to use these services. I am asking these questions because I don’t understand how we can enjoy and use these developments and products, but you lie to yourself when it comes down to politics and religion. It’s not fair for the consenting honest real kind people who want to make a choice, and we can’t because of power, money, and control. Now that Trump and conservatives were in office, women's rights, including abortion and birth control, are in harm's way. Do you have an IUD? Ladies, I recommend getting one NOW if you don’t want to get pregnant. What would you do if condoms, birth control pills, and contraceptives were not available and became illegal? Today is striptease Saturday! These are hot important topics. Start thinking, learning, sharing, and talking more about sex! Explore your sexy, healthy free body, especially your breast, today. Massage tap, and get to know your body. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Remember, you are confident, worth it, brave, and strong! Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa drresa dot com
Are you confident? What is stopping you from being confident and sexy? Could it be the four fears of confidence? This world teaches us fear through religion, politics, and media. They use real/fake news and fear-mongering strategies. Are you ready to learn the four worries of confidence? First, we need to change our habits and start working on four ways to be confident and make this world, religion, and the political world more proactive and positive in our lives. 1. Fear of being yourself. It would help if you conquered the fear. Your homework is to write down your anxiety by being yourself. What people think of you, what they dislike you, and why people won't accept you. 2. Fear of self-promotion is afraid of reactions, responses, and what others think of our work, website, blog, etc. Are you afraid people won't support or like what you are promoting? It would help if you took action, moved forward, and made things happen. 3. Fear of criticism "thoughtless disapproval" of the masses. Are you in fear of others being critical and quick to judge? Could you write a list of fear about criticism, negative thoughts, and lack of support? You need to crush worries over criticism, identify them, and then ask yourself if it's that bad. Most of the time, it is not.
4. Fear of making mistakes- we all make mistakes, which is part of self-improvement by breaking down walls and getting back up. Are you ready to progress, learn, be self-aware and less fearful in this world and become more confident?
If you love yourself, are ready to learn about yourself, and become more confident, please register to VOTE and VOTE2022 #votingissexy. Be intelligent, sexy, aware, courageous, and have fun! You can learn your desires, passions, and enjoyments and get to know yourself. I offer sex, relationship, and confidence coaching at drresa dot com. If you are interested in more sexy photos and videos, onlyfans @drresa fancentro @drresa Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo 💋 DR @drresa
“For Yourself, The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality” has been on my bookshelf for almost 20 years. I have the original 1976 Edition. When I got this book, I was about 15 years old. I wasn’t ready to read it at that age, but I knew that during my 20s, I should of read this book all the way through & follow the exercises on masturbation on my own. I started it a few times but never read the whole book until now. I finally finished it and wished I had read it years ago, worked and did the exercises & learned about my body. During my 20’s, I masturbated mostly with vibrators and toys. Rarely with my hands. I enjoyed the feeling of using my vibrator and having sex, but I never had an orgasm until my early 30s. I am on medication for anxiety, and I believe it relaxes my mind now; and the last eight years, I have been enjoying sex and having orgasms through masturbating oral sex, and intercourse. However, before I started medication for anxiety, I believe the exercises and the information that Lonnie explained in detail would have helped me relax more and enjoy my body to help me have orgasms without medication.This is an excellent book for a woman who had difficulty reaching orgasm on her own and with a partner. This helps women who were brought up that masturbation was dirty and how to work on moving forward from that idea to a woman that is sexual and having orgasms. The book was based on a group study of “pre-orgasmic” women that went through steps and exercises, and by the end of working with the ladies, they will all be able to have an orgasm. There were also questions about 1)What are your parent’s attitudes toward sex? Your mother’s? Father’s? How were they communicated to you? Etc. So many questions and answers that I am ready to ask and want to explore further. If women asked questions, we would understand more about our thinking and why we were not able to have an orgasm and enjoy our body to the fullest. In the book, it goes through the lady's success stories. xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa drresa dot com
Do you know the anatomy of the female pelvis? Are you ready to learn where your female organs are, including the egg-producing ovaries and the uterine tubes that carry the eggs into the uterus for potential fertilization by male sperm? Of course, this also includes the vagina, the entryway to the uterus. What and where is your Uterus? Also called the womb, the uterus is a hollow, pear-shaped organ located in a woman's lower abdomen, between the bladder and the rectum. Where are your ovaries? The ovaries are the two female reproductive organs located in the pelvis. The fallopian tubes carry eggs from the ovaries to the uterus.
What is a c*rvix? The lower, narrow part of the uterus (womb) is located between the bladder and the rectum. It's a canal that opens into the vagina, which leads to the outside of the body. The passageway through which fluid passes out of the body during m*nstrual periods. It is also called the "birth canal." The vagina connects the c*rvix (the opening of the womb or uterus) and the vulva (the external genitalia). We will be talking a lot about the vulva a lot. It is the external portion of the female genital organs. Now that you know parts of the female pelvis, how do you maneuver your pelvis to hump? Could you share your pelvis stories? The more we learn, the more we share! Perfect for hump day and every day. Join my sexy journey Dr.Resa Sexy Sexologist Sex, Relationship Coach xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
Do you think you could be sexy and professional? What about sexy and a parent? Could you be sexy with yourself and or your partner? What is sexy to you? Sexy to me is confidence, courage, being true to yourself, making your own decisions, how passionate you live your life, you want others to be better people, and you want to love and be loved. I was born to be in the sex industry. Does that sound crazy, taboo, wild, or forbidden? I have been intrigued and enamored to learn about this hidden world that made so much sense to me. Over 25 years in the business as a stripper, owner/instructor of EbyResa striptease lap dance lessons, sensual services, coaching, and more. There is so much to explore, experience, learn, and enjoy. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Please join my journey. I share my vulnerable, real-life stories, photos, blogs, videos, and coaching. Daily you never know what the hot topics I will be dishing about. Most are based around SEX. Sex & politics, sex & religions, sex & anxiety, sex & masturbation, sex & money, sex & business. I can keep discussing sex, sexual health, and sex education all day. There are so many social media platforms to choose from, and I love it, but it gets overwhelming. Join, like, comment, subscribe, and get notifications on all my #drresa @drresa sites. Since the Fosta/Sesta bill was signed, most platforms were removed and became G-rated (kid-only friendly). We can be removed by just talking about sex and or anything sexual. If you follow all my pages, we will stay connected. This is my business where I make my living, but it’s my life and passion. Most post is from sexy photo shoots, sexy snaps, and videos but check out what I write and blog about: that is what’s important. As a former stripper, nudity is delicious, wonderful, free, and fulfilling. We are born naked; we shower naked and have sex naked. Do you love being naked? Get naked, get comfortable, smile, flirt, and feel your sexy self. You deserve it. You are confident, brave, amazing, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. xoxo DR #drresa @drresa drresa dot com
What is sex trafficking? Sex trafficking is a form of modern slavery where adults and children are being coerced into doing sex acts against their will. What is sex work/prstitution? Prstitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexual activity in exchange for payment. If a consenting adult chooses to be in the sex industry, that is NOT sex trafficking. What are ways to make consenting adults who wish to be in the sex industry a safe environment for themselves and those who want to see us? I believe unsafe, unhealthy ways of sex are in many homes with partners who make the rules and control you with money, a house, clothes, etc. Are you in a specific environment where you don't feel safe and physically and mentally abused? This is a form of trafficking. Did you hear about the Epstein sex trafficking scandal? He was arrested for accusations of sexual predation that he did for decades. Until his arrest, his case had been held up as a prime example of how insulated, powerful men can escape accountability. Do you think Trump was involved with the Epstein sex trafficking scandal?We already know that he loves y*ung ladies, and because he is rich and powerful, he believes it's okay to do what he wants to them. He has enough money to pay them off and keep them quiet. This does not mean Trump is only seeing sex traffickers. He's also seeing escorts and paying them a big dime to shut them up. Since Trump signed the Fosta Sesta bill in 2017, people like myself and others in the sex industry have brought harm, unsafe ways to find clients, and have an online forum to educate and help people in the business. Online advertising sites closed down, and safety and money have affected our lives. We are all humans and should have rights if we decide to be sex workers. What do we do now? Which Democratic candidate would change the Bill to make it more transparent and concise? We also need to register and VOTE in 2022 & 2024. Men want to stay in power, and they know women who are prostitutes and sex workers have a big voice and are powerful in their own right. They want to bring us down but still traffic us. Today is Striptease Saturday so let's make a change and start speaking our sexy truth. The more we learn and talk, the more healthy and innovative changes in America. Remember, you are hot, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you sexy ones xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Would you happen to know what today is? Are you ready to make this your favorite day? Do you take time for yourself every day to learn and love yourself? Today is masturbation Monday. A self-touch, self-love, self-connection, self-care, and self-confidence day. Are you ready to be your authentic sexual self? Let’s start by learning about you first. Then, please dig deep on Mondays, break those barriers of what your family, work, religion, and friends are doing, and find the true you.
Does that sound scary and exciting? Are you ready for a change? If nothing changes, nothing changes. This month is to explore your free vessel, aka body. When I say masturbation, that doesn’t mean examining your genitalia; it means finding your whole being, your whole self, and your gorgeous body. This month we will be working on confidence exercises, tips and tricks, a webinar, ebooks, and a self-touch tracker to figure out how to have the best orgasms of your life. Are you ready to follow our journey?
Today is the first day to start our day on the right track. We need more love, touch, and a connection in our lives. If you love yourself first, you can give your heart and soul to many others. We are all here from an orgasm. Are you ready to have your climaxes and let go of the shame and guilt we are holding because of the past? I am as guilty as everyone else. That is why this day and every day of our lives is so important to connect with you first. I am so excited to share my journey, and I can’t wait to hear your stories. So please like, comment, share and let’s get started! Remember, you are sexy, confident, courageous, worth it, and ready to let go and have real fun. Love you, sexy ones. xoxo
DR @drresa #drresa #masturbationmonday
Would you go to a class called Pelvic, breath, and spine? What do you think you would learn from that class? What is the pelvic area, and where is it? Do you breathe really, breathe and feel each breath and moment? How’s your posture? Do you stand up straight, or are you on your phone or computer all day looking down? Take a moment and stand up straight, stretch your arms, take a big loud breath, and say ahh. Try that three more times! The pelvic area includes the uterus(also called the womb), ovaries, fallopian tubes, c*rvix, vagina & vulva. Today in the class, we practiced different pelvic movements that resembled striptease hip rolls and just moving your body. Try these three steps today and make it a sexy beautiful day because you are worth it! 1. Breathe three long deep heartfelt breaths 2. Stand up straight, shoulders back, chest out, and breathe again 3. Make a triangle shape with your hands and fingers. Place your triangle below your belly button and between the vulva or penis. That is where your pelvic bone is! Take another breath. Try this practice every day and make it a habit. Please share your story and photo and comment below! Remember, we are all here from an orgasm, so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time! xoxo, DR drresa dot com @drresa #drresa
Do you know self-touch, aka masturbation, is healthy? Did you know that it helps relieve stress and brings more joy to your life? Masturbation is right for your health mentally and physically. Did you know it is the safest sex out there, and there’s no risk of getting pregnant or getting an STI(STD)? Today is Masturbation Monday! When was the last time you took time for yourself to let go and have an orgasm?
Do you know what happens when you have an orgasm? Your body releases endorphins; these hormones block pain and make you feel good. Are you ready to masturbate? Here are the benefits to start exploring. 1. reduces stress 2. releases sexual tension 3. helps you learn and love your body 4. helps you sleep better 5. relieves m*nstrual cramps and anxiety 6. It is free and fun, and today is a great time to start. The more you practice and try new ways to self-explore yourself, the more you find out your pleasure zones and sexual responses. Self-love and solo sex will help you better understand what consent is to you.
If you know your body and who you are, you will make a smarter, safer choice. If you have a partner, you can show them how to give you an orgasm. In yesterday's blog, I talked about breathing. Did you take three sexy breaths an hour? Let’s do it together right now. Breath into your nose, hold it for 5 seconds and blow it out of your mouth. Do this two more times. How do you feel? Next time you self-care, try this breathing technique and tell me how you felt before, during, and after. Remember, you are sexy, fabulous, brave, smart, and confident. Love you, sexy ones. Enjoy this special day and take time for yourself! xoxo
, DR @drresa #drresa drresa dot com
What can you do, as a parent, to instill the positive attitudes to embrace their bodies and sexuality? A client of mine emailed me this question, and I would love to hear your thoughts below? First, as a parent, you need to be comfortable in your skin. You need to be ready and confident with your body and sexuality. Are you prepared to learn to be your true authentic self? You will instill sex-positive, sexual health, and non-judgmental practices to yourself, your partner, and your kids if you're ready. Remember, each body part is precious and your own. Learn and love each part of your free loving vessel that belongs to you. Don’t always portray body parts as sexual. If we start talking about breasts to your baby as this is a way to be fed, be comforted, and connect. Teaching, speaking, and learning about your body and your babies will give you the voice to teach them about their own. Let's start communicating to your kids and loved ones how breast health and every part of your body is essential to love and be loved.An exercise I recommend is to get topless or start with a bra. Let's explain what a breast is and how movement is essential for your chest and other parts. Massaging helps move the lymph tissue, moving your body's energy and bl*od flow. Please use proper names when speaking to them, and this is a way to start hard conversations into regular daily talks. If you listen to them and teach your kids these small critical issues, they will feel comfortable and ready to ask you anything. That is love and acceptance. I love you, sexy ones, and remember you are worth it, confident and prepared to be your highest self is now. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Did you know Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, and many other social media platforms are blocking, removing, flagging, shadow banning, and trying to make sex educators disappear? Do you know why? The conservatives and religious people are finally getting away and destroying America because Trump was in office. They start with fear and remove anything sex-related. Do you know how important sex education and sexual health are? Since Trump signed the Fosta Sesta bill, my life and many others are in harm's way, and most have lost their income to survive. Watch out and pay attention to the small steps the conservatives are planning. Abortion is still legal, right? Not anymore. Why because of Trump. Knowing about the conservative system and how hard it is to get an abortion is illegal in many states. Thank god Trump is not still in office and that led Kavanaugh on the Supreme Court, abortion became illegal. Do you understand how vital these hot topics are right now? This is your life, your future. Are you on birth control? Do you use condoms? Do you believe in women’s rights? What about human rights? Please register and vote in 2022—#votingissexy. Please follow my journey and speak your truth and share it with others! You are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 DR @drresa #drresa drresa dot
Are you feeling yourself? I am feeling myself. I am feeling myself. These are sexy words from a Beyonce song. I love that artists can speak their minds and truth. Do you think it is okay for singers and actors to sing and act about sexual pleasures? It is excellent that they can portray their sexiness on stage or film, but why can’t I? Did you know that most sexologists, sex educators, and sexual health specialists get shadowbanned, blocked, removed, flagged, and looked down upon because we are helping ourselves and others? If we are not a big name or star, photos and videos are removed from Youtube, Instagram, Facebook, and many other online platforms. So why is it okay for public figures with over a million subscribers to show nipples, give a lap dance, and or portray sexual acts? Does that sound fair? The world comes down to money, power, and control.
A couple of years ago Fosta/Sesta bill that Trump and the Conservatives passed was ruining the world of sexual freedom. If you think it is terrible now with Backpage and adult content sites closing down, wait until Beyonce videos, porn sites, dating sites, and strip clubs start closing. If you enjoy sexy online services, we need to get conservatives out of office NOW. Please register and vote in 2022, and let’s start making America sexy again or finally. Today is day 3 of May Masturbation Month and tap your tulips Tuesday. If you start loving and learning about yourself through self-touch, self-love, self-confidence, and self-care, I bet you will have more say on these very important subjects. Remember, you are terrific, courageous, worth it, and brave to be you. Go enjoy your weekend and say out loud, "I am feeling myself, I am feeling myself." Comment below how you felt before, during, and after. Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo
, DR @drresa #drresa
What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? What's the best girl on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions? What are the best sex positions for two vulva-owners who want to share the vibrator in the sexual experience? A couple of examples would be lotus or scissoring? Why is adding a vibe to oral sex so damn hot? Is there a super intimate sex position you'd recommend for folks who like to feel snuggly and close? Spooning or any others? Any tips for solo-touch or masturbating with a vibe? Any fun positions? How's the missionary position with a vibe? What vibes would work for both of us to be comfortable in missionary? These are questions from a Shape magazine interview. Check tomorrow's Instagram @drresa for my sexy answers. Please enjoy today and try new sex positions solo or with your partner, and comment below how you felt before, during, and after. Are you ready to be your true authentic self? Please comment below, subscribe, and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember, you are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa dot com @drresa @drresa
May Masturbation Month!!! Can you believe it's already May 2nd? Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty just like you. We get busy, we make excuses or we don’t think about it. Ready to change that? Now it is May my favorite month to explore myself, my body, my vessel, and guess what it’s free fun and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, and work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas, and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you and What do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from an orgasm so let's talk about it. Sex is so taboo we are getting shadowbanned, flagged, removed, and now a SESTA FOSTA law that is making my life and so many others more scary and harmful. Do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO, I will keep talking, teaching, and speaking about SEX. I speak my truth and I am back in New York City and back with a vengeance. Are you ready for me? I am Resa the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self? What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
Did you start May Masturbation Month off with a bang or an orgasm? Today is Day 3 of National Masturbation Day. What do you think it's called in Britain and Australia? “Wankers Day” is an annual event celebrated on May 28th to protect and perform the right to masturbate. So why would we only enjoy this day once a year? Luckily International masturbation day expanded to include the entire month. Let’s make time for self-touch, self-love, self-connection, self-care, and self-confidence every day of the year. We need to take time to release and let go to live our life to the fullest. Are you ready to start today? This holiday was observed for the first time on May 7th, 1995. I was 18 years old, graduating from high school, and buying my first vibrator. Good Vibrations, a sex toy store, declared this day in honor of Surgeon General Jocelyn Elders for suggesting masturbation to be part of sex education for students. She was fired in 1994 by President Bill Clinton. Why do you think she was let go? I believe most things are dictated by religion, money, and control. What are your thoughts? We are all here from an orgasm. Let’s enjoy our happiness, life, love, and one orgasm and a time. Take a big breath and start your journey to become your highest version. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Remember, you are sexy, worth it, smart, courageous, and confident. Enjoy the rest of your day. Love you sexy ones xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
#Maymasturbationmonth & Masturbation Monday. Do you have a mental illness? Some of the more common disorders are #depression, #bipolar disorder, dementia, schizophrenia, and anxiety disorders. Symptoms may include changes in mood, personality, personal habits, and social withdrawal. What are your daily practices to control your mental illness? Mine is #meditation, #yoga, masturbation, walking, breathing, and medicine. I take 20mg #lexapro daily, medical marijuana edibles, and I finally got off #adderal or #evekeo for attention deficit disorder (ADD). Are you on any medications, and how does it affect you? I am still learning how to control my #anxiety every day, but it is a daily struggle. Speaking my truth and helping myself and others helps me be a better person and really learn more about myself. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? This week check back for my mental illness challenges with my health insurance, my doctors, and how to survive with mental illness in America and this chaotic world. What will you do today to change and be the best you can be? Masturbation is free and fun, so that's the first step to exploring, learning, and loving yourself! xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa drresa dot com
May Masturbation Month!!! Can you believe it's already May 4th? Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty just like you. We get busy, we make excuses or we don’t think about it. Ready to change that? Now it is May my favorite month to explore myself, my body, my vessel, and guess what it’s free fun and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, and work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas, and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you and What do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from an orgasm so let's talk about it. Sex is so taboo we are getting shadowbanned, flagged, removed, and now a SESTA FOSTA law that is making my life and so many others more scary and harmful. Do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO, I will keep talking, teaching, and speaking about SEX. I speak my truth and I am back in New York City and back with a vengeance. Are you ready for me? I am Resa the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self? What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
I love my New York City. It’s April, my Birthday month, and Spring is in the air! Remember to breathe, stretch, move, sleep, eat good nutritious foods, connect online, write, sing, dance, play, slow down, and have fun.
I love celebrating my birthday in New York with my friends. NY has magical energy, and it's the best place on earth. At this time, let's celebrate online and through the lens.
Please share below your favorite sexy New York City pictures. Remember, you are hot, confident, charming, courageous, and worth it. xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
My coaching style is sex-positive, confident, healthy, real, honest, and straight to the point. My communicative approach helps you open up, expose and unleash your vulnerable side. You can start living a life you never thought was possible. I ask you to be as honest as you can during our sessions. We will face things together, and I will hold a safe, comfortable and non-judgment space for you to focus on your sexuality. There will be times that I challenge you to think differently, and it may be uncomfortable for a moment. However, pushing you to explore more deeply will ultimately help you achieve your goals in all areas of your life. Confidence is key!
Are you ready to discover your true sexual self? Let’s talk. Drresa.com xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
What is nudity? Is being nude/naked a form of art, creativity, freedom, or exploration? Unfortunately, our world is powered by religion through money, power, and control. That is why anything related to sex is forbidden, taboo, and full of shame.
We are brainwashed to believe that ALL nudity is either sexual or obscene, so let's remove it from society, including photography, paintings, explicit words, movies, shows, etc. But why is that okay?
What do you think about it?
Really think about what you want, not your religion, family, work, friends, community says. How do you feel? What makes you happy and brings you joy?
Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Explore with me. xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
How is your weekend? Most weekends, do you do the same thing? Are you ready to try something NEW? Will you try something different and flirt while you are doing it? Comment below what flirting is to you? How do you flirt? What kind of flirting do you like? While you were in isolation and quarantine, did you learn a new way to flirt? With your personality. Wow! Here are three tips and tricks to teasing through the lens and online dating. 1. Smile. Remember to smile with your eyes and mouth and ask questions, listen, learn, and be you. Finally, you can become your authentic self. Be genuine, be kind, and tell the truth about yourself. Yes, most of us are talking about the virus, the war, the slap, but let's learn about each other. 2. Posture. Are you ready to start standing up straight, shoulders back, and work on your body? Do you know how important posture is for our whole body, mind, and soul? Are you sitting, slouching, looking down right now? We have time now, so get your ass up. We have time to move our bodies, but standing up straight, you don't need much room. I love Alexander Technique, plus Youtube has thousands of free videos to experiment with. There are so many different sexy, healthy smart ways to move your body right in your bedroom, cleaning your house, and or in the bathroom. Here are some examples: stretching, yoga, pilates, Taebo, Zumba, Ebyresa striptease lap dance moves, and anything your heart desires. 3. Style. Are you wearing pajamas, yoga pants, sweats, and not showering? Take a shower, put some makeup on, do your hair, put on your favorite outfit, and stand up straight. Practice this sexy tip around the house. You will notice a difference between your body and your confidence. Next week I will give you 3 more flirty, smart tips to engage and m*et new people online. Enjoy your day, and please make the most of it. Remember, you are amazing, smart, courageous, and worth it. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Do you know about the Fosta/Sesta Bill? This bill is affecting more people than you think. Could you be one of them? This law is to fight sex trafficking. This bill does not punish traffickers but consenting adults who work in the sex industry. Includes (sex workers, sex coaches, strippers, gynecologists, lingerie shops, cam girls, masseuses, tantra, BDSM, and many others. Do you think this threatens legitimate online speech and censorship? Since Congress passed this April 2018, Backpage closed down; Craigslist removed the adult section, sex education, sexual health, and sex industry websites were removed, SEO and google lowered the search engines to find these services. Youtube takes down videos, and or three strikes, your out, and your channel is shut down.Tumblr bans all adult content, Instagram and Facebook shadowban, flag, or remove posts. If you think this is hurting our livelihood, P*yPal, V*nmo, and other credit card companies deny sex-related businesses to use their services. Online sales, including coaching classes, events, books, toys, etc., won’t be able to use these companies, and consumers will not be able to buy our services. How should we survive in a global world-denying us our rights? What would you do if your business shut down overnight? Because of censorship and conservative ways? What will be next? Strip clubs, pornography websites, sex toy stores, dating sites, and apps. Why does religion play a big part in our lives? Money, power, and control are taking over. Are you sick of America dictating the conservative's ways to rule us? Wake up, America. Let’s make America sexy again or finally. Please learn, listen, vote and love yourself to make the right choices. You are amazing, sexy, and ready to flirt this weekend. Please add @drresa to your notifications to keep up with daily tips and tricks. xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
Do you love to kiss? What's your favorite kind of kiss: a peck, an Eskimo kiss, a French kiss, a forehead kiss, a kiss on the hand, a single lip kiss, the lingering tease kiss, the cheek kiss, ear lobe kiss, butterfly kiss, leave a mark (lipstick kiss), lizard kiss, wet kiss, air kiss (mwaah), a kiss of angle (kiss on the eyelids), seductive kiss, the bite, and nibble kiss, the (hold your) jaw kiss, the vampire kiss, or blow a kiss? What are new, safe, smart, sexy, flirty ways to kiss?
Now that we are isolating ourselves and connecting more online, we need to learn new ways to kiss, flirt, date, tease, enjoy and explore foreplay and sex. Today is Masturbation Monday. Please share your photo or idea of how to bring kissing, passion, and excitement to our lives with the phone camera lens!! I can't wait to see what you come up with. Coming Soon Zoom workshops on kissing, BJ's, striptease, feet, and more. Remember, you are confident, courageous, fantastic, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Are you interested in knowing what saved my life and my constipation issues? In a past blog, I talked about (TMI) too much information and bowel movements. For over six years, I was constipated, b*leeding, uncertain & stressed over why and what were the issues with my gut. I was only seeing western doctors, using my health insurance, I spent an extra (out of my pocket) thousands of dollars on prescriptions, a colonoscopy, and a nutrition specialist. Still, nothing changed, and doctors would give me medicine & hope for the best. I had some extra money to see an acupuncturist who specializes in (NRT) nutrition response testing. She saved my life. The first day I met her, she did the trial and asked me if I had any piercings. Over 20 years ago, I had my tongue pierced, and for six years before meeting Srinika, I had my clit hood pierced. She told me I’m allergic to metal and I need to remove it. I loved my piercing, and was this going to make me regularly p*oop. My girlfriend removed it for me and a month later I was finally making regular bowel movements. Thank god I took that piercing out because I probably would still be dealing with that issue. Do you have trouble going to the bathroom, or do you get diarrhea? Do you have any piercings? Most people wouldn’t expect a piece of jewelry would change your health and livelihood. The acupuncturist mentioned a client had many face & body piercings & from metal she had higher anxiety & other health issues. Are you interested in a masturbation orgasm sexual health tracker? It would be a website/app & or track form to write down what you ate, alcohol, drugs, vitamins, bowel movements, workout, sleep, masturbation, sex, orgasms & more. Please explore & learn your body inside and out. Massage & tap your breasts but don’t forget to touch your ass and ass hole to make sure you understand parts of your free vessel. Remember you are sexy, confident & brave. Love you sexy ones. Xoxo 💋 @drresa #drresa Photoshoot taken in 2014 for a sexy advertisement site plus more naughty Playboy style fun.
Have you performed a striptease lap dance? Did you enjoy it? What did you get out of it? What songs did you dance to? Would you do it again? Answer the questions below, and I will send you a Free worksheet on how to start a striptease! Look out for how to striptease and lap dance moves, ideas, worksheets & exercises. Sexy striptease quotes, articles, stories, and more! Share below your striptease lap dance stories and photos! The more you share, the more we can learn from each other. Remember, you are sexy, confident, beautiful inside & out! Love yourself, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self! Please join, share, repost, like, and comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, Patreon, Tiktok, and more. Let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Your word of mouth helps, so please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining my Dr. Resa Patreon page! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
It's here, everything -
Everything anyone ever
Dreamed of, and more.
But love is lost:
The only sacrifice
To live in this heaven,
This Disneyland
Where people are the games.
poem by Dorothy Stratten talking about the Playboy Mansion and the lifestyle
Twenty-four more days till May Masturbation Month. What does that mean to you? Let me start with why self-love, self-touch, and self-care are important. Do you take time for yourself, at least an hour a day? What about an hour a week? Do you make excuses for learning and loving yourself? I love the month of May! Do you think self-touch is essential for our health and well-being? Most people think masturbation is touching and arousing your genitals. That could be part of it, but there are so many more beautiful parts of your body to explore. Are you ready to learn about your free sexy vessel, aka body? We are looking for love and happiness from others, but let's start with yourself. Are you scared to touch yourself? Are you frightened to find out how unbelievable you are? If nothing changes, nothing changes. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? It’s a great day to take time for yourself and do something new and unusual. Comment below how you felt before, during, and after your sexy day. Did you know I offer online sex, love, life, and relationship coaching? We all need to speak to someone, and I love to work with people who are ready. Is that you? Love you, sexy ones. You are worth it, confident and prepared to live your most fabulous life. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
