Here is me in my favorite outfits, gifted to me for christma..

Here is me in my favorite outfits, gifted to me for christmas from my most loyal and favorite pet!!
He is my big beautiful fluffy kitty cat <3

Did you know that I am actually a switch? Maybe you can see a hint of sub energy in picture 2, 4 and 6 :>
I am also a switch between vanilla and BDSM preferance. I am actually more on the vanilla end in relationships.
I appreciate romantic connection without powerdynamics and play, also. I am the most naturally dirty and orgasmic when I get reeal love-horney.
But my dream relationship is to have two lovers who also like to switch between BDSM and vanilla sex, preferably one dominant and one submissive...but not any kind of dominant... she/he has to be the kind of dominant that I am!
I am not so picky on my subs, but in order to be dominated it has to be just the right energy.

He/she must be into rope bondage, and have a tantric approach in their domination: someone who let- and help me, go into subspace where I only focus on the sensations in my body. Someone who is great at asking questions about what I like and how, and doesn't need me to do stuff to him/her while they dominate me. Someone who loves the confirmation they get when they witness other people in the pleasure they are inflicting on them, someone who doesn't get hurt feelings if they are told they're doing something wrong or can do something better or different. In my D/S world it is the sub that gets everything they want, and the dom is the servant. As a dom, I live by this quote:

"It is always wrong to wield power if you are not prepared to accept the consequenses for your actions and do the work it takes to use your strength and authority with precision and fairness. A good leader is many people's servant. If being trained to become a perfect servant sounds too humiliating, you are not strong enough to withstand the temptations of wielding power."
(Gonna try to find out who said it and put their name her later)

I would love to know some stuff about you guys!
Are you more on the dominant or the submissive end?
What kind of dom/sub do you see yourself as, and how do you like your dom/sub to be?
Do you prefer the BDSM or the vanilla way? Or do you enjoy both worlds?

<3