LOVE Respect yourself enough to have people in your life wh..

LOVE

Respect yourself enough to have people in your life who recognize and gives you credit for all the good things you are
Surround yourself with people who understands that your "bad" sides only are reflections of your wounded inner kid
And let them embrace and hold your wounded inner kid, let them whisper in your ear
"It was not your fault. It's going to be ok. You are more than good enough. You are strong and brave. You are wise and good. You are not defined by your mistakes. Mistakes are only reflections of what we needed to learn. We are all forever learning, forever testing, forever trying. What happened to you was not ok. I believe in you. I will always forgive you."

Good lovers and friends will keep holding safe space for your inner kid in a world where we are supposed to "grow up".
Good lovers and friends will keep parenting your inner kid when your parents will not. And you will parent their inner kid too.
We are all forever kids in a decaying vessel.

We are only here to experience love, connection and pain.
We are not here to "succeed" or to work our asses off, to look a sertain way or to find a special person.
We find love, connection and pain in everything.

Love is the energy that connects us.
But we are taught a false truth; through the tradition of marriage and monogamy we learn that loving is owning.
Loving does not mean owning. Loving means to set free.
And when we are taught that loving means to ave something for ourselves, it hurts to set it free.
Love does not come without connection and pain.

In love we choose to trust.
In love we choose not to project our insecurities and fears.
In love we choose to heal our own hurt.
In love we choose to let each other grow and become the person we want to be.
In love we choose to let go and let flow.
In love we stay present.

I invite you to ask yourself
What is this pain that I am feeling?
And dive into it with an open mind and open heart
You will realize it is YOUR hurt.
That your hurt comes from loving something deeply.
And that is bliss.
You are the only one who can rewire your system and make that pain into bliss.

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