I'll tell you a secret, I had with 3 couples threesomes (al..
Added 2023-01-31 22:09:48 +0000 UTCI'll tell you a secret, I had with 3 couples threesomes (always several times, like an affair). So I was each time so to speak the playmate of the couple. And I'm honest, I thought that was great, somehow that was fully my thing, because for me there were no relationship rules and nevertheless I had people whom I felt close. But unfortunately it ended every time in a similar way. Every time, the female person in the relationship started to pull back in terms of sex, said we should do something alone, she had no desire, is not in the mood or so. And with the time I noticed that something changes with the mood of her and because I always had interest in both I have of course tried to look for the conversation and to talk about it. Which unfortunately has always led to the fact that it has turned out that she felt uncomfortable, no longer loved or was afraid of not being enough. Which for me was a sign that I "the disturbing factor" must go. Which is also the reason why dennis and I dreaming of finding a common partner but always want to see it as a threesome relationship and not just a "playmate" for sex 🫣 so more polygam than polyamorous 🫶ðŸ¤
