I've been arrested three times in my life, twice for "domest..

I've been arrested three times in my life, twice for "domestic violence". I can tell you my story in the DM's but to simplify everything I'll just say that I'm glad I got video of my ex breaking into our place in Costa Mesa and hitting me repeatedly. Unfortunately my phone had died right after I called the police ("What a coincidence" is what the cops said) so I was unable to show them what happened or how it started. I had a concussion and the entire police staff told me they'd get me a nurse but never did the entire two days I was in there for my first time. I was treated poorly, slept in the cold on a cement bed, head bumping and stinging, and my life floating around aimlessly because I didn't know what to do and my friend didn't answer my one phone call. All while my ex slept in MY bed that night. The police only took one person home the first time (me), and both of us the second time. The reason for us getting into? I walked in on him cheating in our place that I paid for. He was literally blowing a dude under a sheet on a couch I also paid for. So yeah, I got the older dude off the property before locking my ex out until I thought of the right way to handle this. I told him to get a friend to take him to their place so I didn't have to sleep under the same roof as him but instead he climbed over from the stairs and broke in through the window, beat me down, then choked himself when I called the cops so they'd see that I had also had a part in the quarrel and took me in because a red neck is more serious than a head injury. No, I'm not making this up. I'd NEVER do that to anyone, not even my arch nemesis who spread the worst rumors about me. Yes, he did tell the cops that after I gave them my story. Watching them walk to me with handcuffs out while I know I did nothing wrong was the scariest and most confusing thing in my life. They didn't question me about what I had "done", but just cuffed me and took me downtown. There's obviously a bit of the stories I'm leaving out but this was just what broke me and eventually broke away from the psychotic circle into being single. And, to be honest, I'm glad it happened. Because if my ex wasn't THAT bad, I'd probably still be with him and I never would've met the series, most compatible human being to walk this planet ❤