

Someone asked me whether or not “size matters”. So I wanted to share with you all my (and every woman I know’s) answer! 🥰 It “matters”, yes, in the sense that we have to make decisions that directly correlate to size and we have to take it into account. “Matters” when we are choosing whether or not we want to date someone? Definitely not. It determines *how* we can go about being with the people we choose to be with. ‘Can I do this position without it hurting? Will I need additional stimulation to get off? How much can I arch my back? Can I handle blowing it? Will we perhaps benefit from a sheath? How many times in a row can we do it?’ I personally prefer on the smaller side, but size has never been a dealbreaker when I like someone. Just have to plan/adjust accordingly, much like every other decision in life! 🥰 If someone in particular does have a preference, well fine, you just aren’t for them. But don’t let someone make you feel like you are less *valuable* just because they are not willing or knowledgeable enough to use what you are working with! 💕