


Today was a phenomenal day. Today one of my Pay Pigs brought me 6 of the 12 windows I need to replace the original ones on the house. As my friends and followers know I own a house built in 1866. It is an old fox hunting cabin with almost no updates since the 1950’s. Originally when I got into kink I was told there is a community out there who will find you a way even when you feel you can’t. Everyday I find that statement more true than the day before. Fast forward to 15+ years later and I’m a Pro Domme/ Financial Domme. I have relationships, pay pigs, clients, community, and just so many people to lean on. I have memories, lessons and dynamics I could have never dreamed of. It’s all because of kink. It’s because of Sex Work. When I say this lifestyle isn’t for the faint of heart. When I say I’ve experienced more negativity than I ever thought i could handle. I have humbled myself and grown in ways I never saw possible. When I say kink can be positively life changing…. I am telling the truth. Nothing compares to the life I live. The life I love and the people who stand by me. Nothing compares to this feeling of family and safety. Even when I don’t feel secure I know no matter what I have people who love me, care for me and who want to help me prosper. I’ve been called so many terrible things because of how open I am about my trade. I’ve been physically, sexually and verbally assaulted for dating to demand my worth. I’ve been judged so severely I’ve contemplated unimaginable things. I’ve also had dreams come true I couldn’t have imagined. Today was a beautiful reminder of how much I love this path I’m on. $4k worth of windows. A new roof. Stable work. A septic system. Dungeon equipment. A new car. All things I could have never imagined possible. ALL THINGS SEX WORK AND MY COMMUNITY HAVE PROVIDED. Some of you might not see the benefits of this lifestyle. I live and love them. THANK YOU TO THE PEOPLE WHO HELP ME BE THE BEST VERSION OF ME. Thank you to the subs who pay for my home renovation materials. Life is good because of y’all 💜🥰