January is Fitness Month! Why? Well we needed an excuse to ..

January is Fitness Month! Why? Well we needed an excuse to stick to our resolutions and Saph has a bit of a fitness fixation. Rubie🔥 I don't have a fitness kink, and I'm not really attracted to muscle. I strongly prefer slender or squishy bodies, and I hatehatehate working out. You can tell we like yoga, I make a point to do it every morning, but It's hard to get motivated to actually do cardio/lift. The things I find sexy about the fitness kink come from control: I love tasks+rewards+punishment. I like the idea of a sub doing physical labor for me, stuff I couldn't do myself (and Saph's a weakling so). Saph has a hard time self motivating to work out, so we came up with this "Fitness Mistress" idea which uses the sub's workout and diet goals to plan a sexy and motivating relationship. Subs get a lot of pleasure out of pleasing their Dom, and as a Dom I get a lot of pleasure out of seeing my subs reach their goals and build their confidence. It would be such a treat to be that motivation for someone. I imagine using little workouts as punishments or tasks, and showing myself off as a reward. Random texts like "Drop and give me 20 right now ;)" followed up by a video of my sub doing pushups in a completely vanilla setting, surrounded by their unknowing buddies would give me such a rush! Punishing them with harder workouts, or food restrictions, or my sweaty feet in their face 😆 I'm not sure where to put this, but I want to mention a super hot veterinarian I worked with who would run to work every day. She'd show up all sweaty and blushing, then cool off and change into tight fitted scrubs... One morning she came into the break room where a friend and I were having breakfast. Her yoga pants left nothing to the imagination. I actually spit my tea back into my cup, and was so flustered I literally had to leave the room. Saph- I DO have a fitness kink. 🤤 So much so that I don’t know where to start. Fit slender bodies are one of the body types among many that I admire. I think it’s a confidence boost and a lot of fun to have a game-like relationship with one’s own body. Playing with the limits and abilities of one’s body is a great way to develop discipline and get to know yourself. I used to be an avid long distance runner, it was addictive, exhilarating, thoughtful, punishing and refreshing. I had to stop after starting school, but whenever I have an excuse to go for a run, it all comes rushing back to me and I feel alive. I’m also a a huge masochist and bit of a sadist, so there is nothing like the sweet, sore pain after pushing my own body beyond a limit that I pushed myself to cross. It’s sexy and effective wether it’s myself or a Dom putting me through hell, but I think I’d rather it be a Dom. As a switchy sub, when I am in a submissive mind space, using my body for a Dom in any capacity is beyond sexy. Exercising and sporting with a partner or a team is like a game on a whole different level, and it can be an opportunity for intimacy. Competition and endurance bring out elements in relationships that are both vulnerable and intimidating. On a more shallow note, if I see a fine babe at the gym, I can’t help thinking “WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO FOR HER TO BENCH ME!? JUST FLIP ME HORIZONTAL AND BENCH ME!! AGHHHH!!!” 🤯😰😫🤩😍🤤 Go Fitness!