

I've been playing more and more with restraints in the last few years. And there's something so erotic about it.
For me, giving up control is sexy.
I often don't feel safe to let someone else take the reins.
It's also fun for my ADHD. My mind frequently wanders during sex unless there is some type of trill keeping my mind alert. Often a light restraint is enough to keep my brain attentive to the moment.
And even an implied restraint like this, can be such a turn on 🔥