

More about me, OF edition… • I have responsive desire. What does that mean? I don’t get struck by the horny bolt of lightning. I have to get aroused before I experience desire. It’s pretty common but I used to think there was something broken about me. • My biggest turn on is feeling safe to use my no. Because I have responsive desire, occasionally I have to say no to continuing forward in a sexual situation. I need to feel safe sharing my no with my partner and know he will be ok, not making me feel bad. Expectations around sex act as a huge boner killer for me. Sometimes those expectations come from myself so I have to manage them. Direct communication helps! • I LOVE hand sex. I can ride the waves of pleasure when it involves fingers. It’s a different kind of orgasm for me. Orgasms from penetrative sex is a one-and-done situation. No idea why. Stay tuned for more… Anything here resonate? Photo mainly for tax but to also show off my fresh cut.